I Need And Want For My Husband To Tell Me Everything About The Affair In Order To Move Past It And Have Closure

I recently heard from a wife who was insisting that her husband tell her “EVERYTHING” after his affair.  She felt like if she had all of this information, it would help her to move on and have some closure. She strongly felt that if he would trust her enough to not hold anything back, this […]

I Cheated On My Spouse And Had An Affair. What Types Of Questions Should I Expect? How Should I Answer?

Sometimes I hear from spouses (usually men) who are getting ready to come clean after they’ve cheated or had an affair. For whatever reason, they have decided to tell their spouse. Sometimes, the guilt is too much to bear. Other times, they know that admitting the infidelity to their spouse might help them to save […]

I Am So Disappointed In My Husband After His Affair

I recently heard from a wife who told me that she was having  a very hard time getting over the disappointment in her husband after finding out about his affair.  She had been working hard to save her marriage, but she was having a hard time because it always came back to the shock of […]


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What If I Caused My Husband’s Affair?

by: katie lersch: I recently heard from a wife who confided at me that although she was devastated and gravely disappointed in her husband for having an affair, she felt the need to take on some of the responsibility. She said, in part: “I’m furious at him, but I’m also mad at myself. I feel […]

My Husband Admitted To Having An Affair, But He’s Not Ending It

by: katie lersch: I recently heard from a wife who was quite conflicted and confused. Her husband had come to her and admitted he was having an affair. He did this on his own. She didn’t suspect him and didn’t have the knowledge to confront him. Seemingly out of the clear blue, he sat her […]

Should I Tell My Family About My Spouse’s Affair?

I often hear from spouses (usually wives) who aren’t sure if they should tell their family about their spouse’s affair or cheating.  Many times, they would really like their family’s support.  But, in the case of many wives, they’re also worried that their family will think differently about their spouse and this may be a […]

I Feel So Ugly After My Husband Cheated And Had An Affair

I can’t tell you how often I hear this phrase from women.  I felt it myself so I know how it call feel.  So many times, women suffer a serious blow to their self esteem and to the way they feel about themselves when their husbands cheated or had an affair. Sometimes, they compare themselves to […]

I’m So Depressed After My Husband’s Affair

by: katie lersch: I often hear from wives who are struggling in a variety of ways after finding out that their husband had an affair or has cheated on them. Some of the concerns expressed are things like: “Some days, I don’t even want to get out of bed or take a shower. I know […]

Can Your Husband’s Affair Or Cheating Be A Wake Up Call? Why I Think It Can

I recently heard from a wife who had really been struggling to deal with her life and her marriage after her husband’s affair.  She had been talking to a trusted friend about the situation and the friend was trying her best to cheer her wife up.  The friend told the wife that an affair didn’t […]

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