How Will My Husband Act After I Confront Him About The Affair

by: katie lersch:  I recently heard from a wife who had found out that her husband had been cheating on her.  A mutual friend of the couple had come to the wife and told her that she had seen the wife’s husband at a restaurant with another woman.  The friend also said that it was clear that this was […]

Do Husbands Cheat Because Their Wives Don’t Appreciate Them?

by: katie lersch: If you spend any amount of time researching why men cheat on their wives, I’m extremely confident that you’ll read about this theory of cheating.  Many experts have been quite outspoken about their assertions that a man’s cheating has less to do with sex or his attraction to his wife and more to do with a husband not […]

Why Do We Blame Ourselves When Our Husbands Cheat Or Have Affairs?

By: Katie Lersch:  When you’re an outsider looking in, it’s hard to understand how a wife can blame herself when her husband cheats or has an affair.  Before this happens to you, you probably think it’s very clear cut that if a husband cheats or has an affair, then he (and the other woman) are […]

What Questions Should I Ask The Woman My Husband Cheated And Had An Affair With?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are gearing up to meet with or question the woman that their husband cheated with.  They often want to know how they should act or what they should ask her.  They often will rehearse for, plan out, and play out this meeting in their mind long […]

The Steps to Getting Over Infidelity In Your Marriage

by: katie lersch: I get a lot of correspondence from people who are trying very hard to recover from or get over their spouse’s infidelity. Most of them really do have good intentions and are doing their very best. But, for various and understandable reasons, they sometimes get stuck and just can’t seem to be […]

Does My Spouse No Longer Love Me After My Affair? How Do They Really Feel About Me?

I sometimes hear from people who have recently cheated on their spouses and who have also been recently caught. By the time they contact me, they’ve often made at least some attempt at a reconciliation or at working things out with their spouse. They are often sorry and want advice on what they need to […]

How Do I Convince My Husband That The Woman He’s Cheating And Having An Affair With Is A Gold Digger And Only Interested In Money

I sometimes hear from wives who ask for advice on how to get their husband to see how stupid he is acting when he’s cheating or having an affair. They want him to wake up and see how silly and how embarrassing his actions truly are. I recently heard from a wife who felt this […]

What Would Be Good Payback For My Husband’s Cheating And Having An Affair: Read This Before You Decide

Sometimes, I have women who contact me and tell me that they’re looking for a “good payback” on their husband for his affair or his cheating. Understandably, they are extremely angry with him and they are looking for a way to make him very much regret cheating on them. Many women want to do something […]

What Are The Chances Or Odds My Husband Will Marry The Other Woman Or Mistress

One of the common concerns that I hear from wives whose husbands have had an affair is whether he will end up having a long term relationship with (or even end up marrying) the woman with whom he was cheating. Often, the husband seems to be quite infatuated with the other woman and the wife […]

What If The Sex Was Better With The Other Woman During The Affair?

I hear from a lot of women who are trying to restore their sex life after their husband’s cheating or having an affair.  One theme that I see coming up time and time again is the wife’s worry that the sex was better with the other woman and the husband comparing the two. I often […]

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