Should A Wife Forgive Her Husband Who Confessed He Had An Affair Years Ago?

by: katie lersch:  Forgiveness after an affair can be a real struggle.   Some people struggle with forgiveness for quite a long time.  And others are never able to offer it.  But what happens if you’re asked to forgive an affair that happened years ago but you were not told about it until recently?  Does it […]

My Husband Won’t Tell Me When The Affair Began

by: katie lersch: When wives are trying to evaluate how they want to react to their husband’s affair (and whether they want to save their marriage in spite of it,) many will want as much information about the affair as they can possibly get. They gather this information because they want to see what they […]

I Have Evidence My Husband Is Having An Affair. Should I Confront Him? If So, How?

by: Katie Lersch:  I recently heard from a wife who was almost certain that her husband had been having an affair.  She had suspected it for a while but had only recently taken the initiative to follow up and to try to obtain evidence of the same.  Much to her surprise, she didn’t have a […]

Can My Marriage Survive If My Husband Still Has Contact With The Woman He Cheated On Me With?

by: katie lersch:  It goes without saying that the ideal when you’re trying to save your marriage after infidelity or an affair is for the spouse who cheated to cut off all contact or ties with the other person.  It’s difficult enough to save your marriage when it’s only the two of you, but this […]

Do Some Men Use An Affair To End The Marriage Or Get A Divorce?

By: Katie Lersch:  I recently heard from a wife who theorized that her husband had deliberately planned and then had an affair in order to end his marriage.  She felt that his having an affair was his passive aggressive way to obtain a divorce because he was too cowardly to ask for one in any […]

How Can I Think More Positively After My Husband’s Affair?

By Katie Lersch:  I recently heard from a wife who had noticed a change in her attitude and her world view after finding out about her husband’s affair.  She said that she’d always been a “glass half full” type of person but since her husband cheated on her, she had a much more pessimistic view […]

My Husband Is So Cold After His Affair. What Can I Do About This?

By Katie Lersch: I often have women tell me that they can’t help but notice some very troublesome personality changes in their husband after he cheated or had an affair.  Sometimes, the wife isn’t the only one who is noticing these changes.  Often, the children involved or other family members can’t help but notice as […]

Should I Approach My Husband’s Mistress?

by: katie lersch: I often get correspondence which ask questions about the best way to handle a husband’s mistress. Many wives want a strategy to get rid of this person once and for all. Many ask whether it’s a good idea to confront or talk to the other woman. Many wives hope that they can […]

When Your Spouse Won’t Forgive Your Infidelity

By: Katie Lersch:   I often hear from the spouse who was cheated on.  Occasionally though, I sometimes get messages from the spouse who cheated.  Perhaps my perspective is skewed because I was one of the spouse’s who was cheated on, but it’s usually pretty obvious which people are sincere and which aren’t.  Some ask for […]

Should I Know All Of The Details Of My Husband’s Cheating

by: katie lersch: I recently received an email from a wife who was very frustrated because her husband would not give her all of the details about his recent cheating on her. He would basically only tell her the time frame in which it happened in, how long it lasted, and that ultimately he had […]

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