My Husband Cheated Twice With The Same Woman. Does This Mean He Loves Her?

By Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives whose husbands have cheated more than once. This is bad enough. But sometimes, he is cheating with the same woman multiple times. I recently heard from a wife who said in part: “I was more than devastated the first time I found out about my husband’s affair.  […]

Is It Best To Ignore Your Husband After He Had An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who truly can’t stand the sight of their husbands after they’ve learned that he’s cheated or had an affair.  Many just don’t know how to deal with him so they’d rather not be in his presence at all, at least for a while. I recently heard from […]

I Cheated On My Husband To Get Back At Him For Cheating On Me And Now I’ve Created A Mess

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from spouses who admit that they cheated only to get back at the spouse who cheated on them first.  Many cheat thinking that their actions are going to show their spouse how it feels to be cheated on or make their spouse jealous enough to stop his own cheating […]

Will I Ever Enjoy Sex Again After My Husband’s Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: This is an extremely common question.   Many couples feel pressured or rushed to resume their sex life  after one of them cheats or has an affair.   Many see having sex again as one way to signify their commitment to making the marriage work and restoring the passion and chemistry within their marriage […]

Why Couples Stay Together After An Affair, Cheating, Or Infidelity

By: Katie Lersch: I admit that before infidelity happened to me, I was one of those people who thought that if my husband ever cheated on me, our marriage would be over.  I felt very strongly about this and I know that there are many people who feel the same way.  I often get comments […]

Why Does My Husband Say He Doesnt Love Me After His Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from wives who are confused as to why their husband is suddenly claiming not to love them any more after his affair has been discovered.  I recently heard from a wife who said, in part: “the affair is still pretty fresh.  I only found out about three weeks ago.  […]

Is Online Cheating Really Cheating? My Spouse Hates Me Since She Caught Me

By: Katie Lersch:  I get a lot of correspondence about online cheating and chatting.  Judging from the numbers, it seems that this type of infidelity is on the rise and couples can disagree about whether it’s really cheating.  The person who is doing it often doesn’t see it as being unfaithful while the spouse who […]

My Husband Left The Mistress / Other Woman But Now She’s Trying To Destroy Our Marriage

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives who are dealing with infidelity confess to me that they feel that if they could just get their husband to leave or break things off with the other woman, they could save their marriage and move on with their lives.  So, many of them rejoice when their husband finally ends […]

What Should A Husband Do After He Cheats?

by: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from panicked husbands who have just cheated on their wives.  They often didn’t intend for this to happen and are reeling as to what to do next.  Many ask me what they should do immediately following the cheating.  I often hear comments like: “I just cheated on my wife.  […]

I Wish I Never Knew About My Husband’s Affair. I Wish I’d Never Found Out

By: Katie Lersch: The reaction of wives who find out about their husband’s affair is extremely varied.  Some spring into action immediately and want to know everything.  They press for every single detail even though these details can be very painful.  But, they feel like they have to know the entire truth in order to […]

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