I Don’t Get the The Hold The Other Woman Has Over My Husband. Why Does She Have So Much Power Over Him?

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from wives who just do not understand the hold that the “other woman” in the affair has over their husband. Many of these wives tell me that the other woman is not even that pretty, polished, or accomplished. And yet, they are beyond frustrated to see this plain Jane, […]

My Husband Is Moving Out To Go And Live With The Other Woman He’s Been Cheating And Having An Affair With. What Now?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes get emails from wives who feel as if they have lost the battle to keep their husband after his affair. Sometimes, he is not willing to give the other woman up and he believes that he will be happier if he leaves his wife and moves in the with her. […]

How Do I Make My Husband See How It Feels To Be Cheated On Without Actually Cheating On Him?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who tell me that they would give anything for their husband to feel the pain that his cheating has forced upon them. They often feel as if he really has no idea of the pain that they are in, nor does he have any clue as to […]

My Husband Had An Affair And Now He’s Saying That He Loves Me But Is No Longer “In Love” With Me

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who don’t know where they stand with their husband after he has had an affair. Sometimes he comes home and makes a half hearted attempt to save the marriage when it’s obvious that something is missing. The wife can’t help but notice that he just doesn’t seem […]

Why Would A Man Go Back To The Wife He Claimed To Hate During The Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: Believe it or not, I get this question quite a bit. Sometimes, the “other woman” who has been cheating with the husband asks the question. And sometimes, I hear this question from the wife who is hearing from someone else that her husband has been claiming to hate her at the same […]

How Can A Man Prove Himself After Cheating, An Affair Or Infidelity

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from men who are looking for ways to get back in their wives’ good graces after infidelity, cheating, or having an affair. Some feel as though they’ve tried everything in their power to prove how sincere and sorry they are to their wife, but nothing works. I recently heard […]

What Type Of Man Has An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who have no idea what has come over their husband and what contributed most to him having an affair. Many wives tell me that they are not sure if they ever really knew their husbands at all because the man they knew would not lie, cheat, or […]

Can Your Marriage Be A Good One Even When Your Spouse Cheats Or Has An Affair?

By Katie Lersch: This is a question that spouses rarely agree upon.  It’s very common for one spouse to have one view of the marriage while the other has a very different view.  Sometimes, the spouses keep their opinions to themselves until infidelity rears it’s ugly head and the marriage it literally pulled apart and […]

Depression After Your Spouse Cheats Or Has An Affair

By Katie Lersch: I often hear from spouses (very often wives) who worry that they are suffering from depression as they are trying to recover from their husband’s cheating, infidelity, or affair. And sometimes when they are talking about this, they almost admit to it as if it’s something to be ashamed of, as if […]

Do I Need To Completely Understand The Reasons My Husband Had An Affair? Or Should I Let It Go?

By Katie Lersch:I often hear from wives who are desperately trying to understand the reason that their husband cheated or had an affair. But sometimes, despite their husband’s attempts to explain, they still just don’t get it. And sometimes, a husband can be reluctant to discuss the real reasons for the affair (because he may […]

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