I Find Myself Always Bringing Up My Husband’s Affair. How Can I Stop This?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are having a hard time keeping quiet about their husband’s affair. This can be true even when the affair has long been over and a good amount of time has passed. Many times, the wives truly do want to move on, but they can’t seem to […]

I Regret Telling My Spouse I Cheated. Where Do I Go From Here?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who really were trying to do the right and honorable thing when they told their spouse they cheated. They usually felt a lot of guilt, didn’t want the lie hanging between them and their spouse, and cared enough about their marriage to bring the cheating out there […]

Why Do I Always Have To Take The High Road With My Husband Who Cheated And Had An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who don’t feel that they are being treated altogether fairly after their husband cheated or had an affair. They are often quite hurt, disappointed, and still reeling and yet they can feel a lot of pressure to just pick themselves up, dust themselves off, and move on […]

What Do I Say to My Husband To Get Him Back From The Other Woman Or Mistress?

By: Katie Lersch: Many women are contact me are in a situation where their husband is still involved with the other woman or mistress despite the wife’s best efforts to get him away from her. Sometimes, he is actually now living with the other woman. Other times, he is still at home but the wife […]

What I Learned From My Husband’s Affair

By: Katie Lersch: Many of the people who contact me are reeling from the shock of finding out that their spouse has had an affair. Usually, the pain is quite fresh for them and they can not envision that they won’t always feel as awful as they do right now. I know that it can […]

What Can I Do To Help My Spouse After Cheating?

By: Katie Lersch: Most of the time, I hear from people who have been cheated on. They usually really want to heal and begin to get their life back to normal, but they are often running into obstacles or struggling with difficult feelings and issues. Sometimes though, I hear from people who have cheated on […]

My Husband Admitted That He Started The Affair. He Pursued The Other Woman.

By: Katie Lersch: I recently heard from a wife who was devastated to learn that he husband had chased after the woman, with whom he eventually had an affair. The wife had always assumed that the other woman had pursued her husband and so her anger lied mostly with the woman, not her husband. But […]

I’m Afraid To Tell My Husband The Details Of My Affair. I’m Afraid It Will Make Things Worse

By: Katie Lersch: It’s natural and understandable for someone whose spouse or cheated or had an affair to want to know all of the details of that same affair. It’s perfectly natural to want to know what began the affair, how long it lasted, who knew about it, what type of feelings were involved, whether […]

How Do I End My Husband’s Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are looking for a plan or strategy to bring their husband’s affair to a swift end. Many want to save their marriage without having the threat of the other woman and the affair hanging over them. Sometimes, these wives are in a situation where the husband […]

My Husband Says He Can’t And Won’t Explain Why He Cheated And Had An Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are desperately trying to understand exactly which factors lead up to their husband cheating or having an affair. Many feel as if they need to fully understand the reasons behind the affair in order to fully heal. And some husbands will do their best to provide […]

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