Why Even Hold On To Your Marriage When Your Spouse Has An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are unsure if it is even worth it to try to save their marriage after their spouse has an affair. They often reason that if their spouse can betray them in the worst way possible, why should they even try to fix things? They often ask […]

The Other Woman Is Telling Me She’s In Love With My Husband. What Now?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are reeling from their conversation with “the other woman,” the mistress, or the woman with whom their husband has been cheating or having an affair. These types of conversations almost never go well. Not only are they awkward, but they are often quite hurtful and do […]

My Husband Has Shut Down After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who aren’t sure how to handle it when their husband suddenly clams up and shuts down after the wife finds out about and wants to work through his affair.  Often, the more the wife feels that she absolutely has to have answers, the less the husband wants […]

My Kids Don’t Respect My Husband After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are not only dealing with their own conflicting feelings about their husbands after his affair, they are dealing with the feelings of their children also. Sometimes, there is no way to shield or protect your children from what is going on. I heard from a wife […]

Will My Husband Think Of (And Long For) The Other Woman For The Rest Of Our Lives?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who spend a lot of time worrying about how their husband is feeling about the other woman with whom he cheated or had an affair. Very often, the affair is supposedly over and the couple are trying very hard to pick up the pieces of their marriage […]

My Spouse Doesn’t Seem To Care That I Cheated? What Does This Mean? Does My Marriage Stand A Chance?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from spouses who have just been outed for their cheating or affair. However, sometimes they are quite surprised as to the response that they are getting. Many expected a very emotional response which included everything from sadness, to fury, to devastation but what some get instead is almost an […]

I Can’t Help Feeling Sorry For Myself After My Husband’s Affair

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are trying to pick up the pieces of their lives after their husband cheated or had an affair. Being in this sort of pain and living with this kind of uncertainty is not much fun, so most people intuitively want to move on as soon as […]

I Want To Make My Husband Miserable After His Affair. How Do I Stop Feeling This Way?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are absolutely furious after their husband’s affair. They are extremely resentful of the pain, betrayal, and humiliation that he has put them through and they want revenge. Many will come right out and admit that they want to make their husband miserable after he cheated or […]

What Does My Husband See In The Other Woman Or Mistress?

By: Katie Lersch:  This is a very common question and I’m asked it on a very regular basis.  Today, with the release of the photo of the woman Arnold Schwarzenegger had a baby with, I’ve been asked it several more times. Needless to say, the other woman wasn’t what every one expected.   And we often […]

When Is It Time To Tell My Husband To End His Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are trying to determine how to get their husband to end his affair. Sometimes, the husband is very well aware of the fact the wife knows about the affair (as well as how she feels about it.)  Other times, the wife has not yet confronted the […]

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