My Husband Says He Doesn’t Want Or Need My Forgiveness After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are so disappointed in their husband’s attitude after they have caught him cheating or having an affair.  Many wives expect him to act one way, but are upset when he acts in a completely different way than what was expected. I heard from a wife who […]

Does The Other Woman Still Think Of My Husband?

By: Katie Lersch:  It’s not uncommon for wives to spend a lot of time thinking about the woman with whom their husband cheated or had an affair.  This can be true even after the affair has long been over.  One common concern is if the other woman still thinks about the husband (and vice verse.) […]

Does Taking My Husband Back After He Cheated And Had An Affair Mean I Have Low Self Esteem?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from women who are feeling a little insecure about their decision to take back their husband after he cheated or had an affair.   And quite often, these wives worry more about what other people think than about what they themselves think.  They often worry quite a bit about outward […]

My Husband Admitted To Cheating But He Won’t Say Who He Cheated With

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are trying to deal with two frustrations simultaneously.  First, they are devastated that their husband has admitted to cheating.  And second, they are beside themselves because he won’t disclose who he has been cheating with. I heard from a wife who said: “my husband finally admitted […]

I Want To Feel True Happiness Again After My Husband’s Affair, But I Don’t Know If It’s Possible

By: Katie Lersch:   I often hear from wives who wonder if they will ever be truly happy again after their husband cheated or had an affair.  Many can divide their happiness level into two levels – before the infidelity and after it. I heard from a wife who said: “although it might be hard to […]

Do People Ever Regret Cheating?

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from husbands or wives who want to know if their spouse will ever regret cheating on them.  Many times, the cheating spouse has been able to justify their actions or is making all sorts of excuses for the same.  Many spouses who cheat don’t seem to have an ounce […]

I Want My Husband To Hate The Other Woman, But He Won’t

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who feel absolute hatred for the woman with whom their husband cheated. The wives often think that most of their marital problems are all this woman’s fault.  And it can be hard to argue with this when the marriage was moving along just fine until she came […]

How Can We Rebuild The Communication After The Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from people who have stopped really talking to one another after one of them has had an affair.  Many of them are committed to saving their marriages but they’re now struggling because they feel awkward and unheard. I heard from a wife who said: “my husband had an affair […]

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