My Husband Says He Doesn’t Want Or Need My Forgiveness After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives are so disappointed in their husband’s attitude after they’ve caught him cheating or having an affair.  They might expect him to act one way, but are upset when he acts in a completely different way than what was expected. An example: “I caught my husband having an affair two weeks […]

Does The Other Woman Still Think Of My Husband?

By: Katie Lersch:  It’s not uncommon for wives to spend a lot of time thinking about the woman with whom their husband cheated or had an affair.  This can be true even after the affair has long been over.  One common concern is if the other woman still thinks about the husband (and vice verse.) […]

Does Taking My Husband Back After He Cheated And Had An Affair Mean I Have Low Self-Esteem?

By: Katie Lersch:  Some women feel a little insecure about their decision to take back their husband after he cheated or had an affair.   And quite often, these wives worry more about what other people think than about what they themselves think.  They often worry quite a bit about outward appearances and what their friends […]

My Husband Admitted To Cheating But He Won’t Say Who He Cheated With

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives are trying to deal with two frustrations simultaneously.  First, they are devastated that their husband has admitted to cheating.  And second, they are beside themselves because he won’t disclose who he has been cheating with. You might hear: “my husband finally admitted that he has been cheating.  I’ve strongly suspected […]

I Want To Feel True Happiness Again After My Husband’s Affair, But I Don’t Know If It’s Possible

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives wonder if they will ever be truly happy again after their husband cheated or had an affair.  Many can divide their happiness level into two levels – before the infidelity and after it. Someone could explain, “although it might be hard to believe today, I actually used to be a […]

How Can We Rebuild The Communication After The Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  Many married people stop really talking to one another after one of them has had an affair.  Many of them are committed to saving their marriages, but they’re now struggling because they feel awkward and unheard. A wife might say: “my husband had an affair with one of my close friends.  I […]