My Husband Says Cheating And Having An Affair Wasn’t All About Sex. How Can He Say This?

By: Katie Lersch:  Many people assume that an affair is all about sex.  I would even venture to say that most people think that cheating men must not have a great sex life at home so they are having to go elsewhere.   Sadly, many wives whose husbands are unfaithful believe this also.  I heard from […]

My Husband Wants To Have An Open Marriage After He Had An Affair. What Now?

By: Katie Lersch: Occasionally, I hear from wives whose husband want to redefine the terms of their marriage after an affair.  Many will suggest concessions or changes as an alternative to them leaving the marriage.  One such is example is husbands trying to convince their wife to have an “open” or “unconventional” marriage instead of […]

My Husband Says He Doesn’t Regret One Second Of His Affair. What Now?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are beyond confused about their husband’s behavior after he cheated or having an affair. Many husbands insist that they want to make their marriage work. They say this with their words. And yet, sometimes their actions and their flip comments tell somewhat of a different story […]

What Do I Do Now That My Husband Has Finally Admitted To An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives think that if they can just get their husband to finally admit to the affair, they can finally start the healing process, or at least can begin moving on.  But often, once they finally get that admission, they aren’t sure what they should do next.  I heard from a wife […]

Do Cheating Husbands Find Happiness With Their Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from wives who truly want to know what their husband legitimately feels during his affair.  Often, they can’t help but notice that he’s acting downright silly with a definite spring in his step.  He’s suddenly humming a little tune while getting ready for work and he’s suddenly nicer to […]

Should I Stop Having Sex With My Husband After His Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from women who have no desire to resume sexual relationships with this husband after he has had an affair.  Some are acting out of anger and others want to teach their husband a lesson.  Withholding sex can be a very deliberate decision made as a way to punish the […]

I Have Trouble Believing That My Husband Really Loves Me After He Had An Affair: Tips That Might Help

By: Katie Lersch: This may surprise you, but often one  main concerns after learning of a husband’s affair is not the wife’s  own feelings but that of her husband.  If you were to ask very honest wives their most immediate concern during the early days after the affair has been found out, many will tell […]

Is There Ever Justification To Cheat On Your Spouse?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from people who feel very justified in their cheating.  And I sometimes hear from spouses who want to know if those justification arguments are valid.  The truth is, it is very common for people to feel as if there were circumstances that almost excused or justified their cheating.  Common […]

My Husband Had An Affair And I’m Not That Angry. What Does That Mean?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are very surprised at their husband’s reaction after he has been caught having an affair. Many had assumed that if they ever found out that their husband was cheating, that they were going to absolutely furious. When or if this doesn’t happen, they can be quite […]

Should I Just Ignore My Husband’s Infidelity?

By: Katie Lersch:  Most of the wives that I hear from are asking about various ways to confront their husband about his infidelity and then begin to heal from it so that they can save their marriage. Occasionally though,  I hear from a wife who wants to know if it’s wise to just ignore the […]

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