Delayed Anger After The Affair: What Does It Mean And What Can You Do About It?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives experience intense anger long after the affair has been discovered. They are often quite frustrated by this and don’t understand why it is happening so long after the fact. One might say: “for weeks after my husband’s affair, I was very calm. It wasn’t that I wasn’t mad or upset. […]

Do I Tell The Other Woman That I Know She Is Cheating With My Husband?

By: Katie Lersch: Many women aren’t sure how to proceed when they first find out that their husband is cheating. Often, they know many of the details, but the guilty parties aren’t aware of this knowledge.  And they wonder if they should confront their husband, the other woman, or both.  Many wives are tempted to […]

My Husband Said He Only Had A Fling, Not An Affair. What’s The Difference?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives aren’t sure how to classify their husband’s infidelity.  This can be particularly true when the husband is claiming that his infidelity is not as bad as it could have been.  Many husbands will attempt to differentiate between a one night stand, a fling, cheating, and an affair. A confused wife […]

I Don’t Trust Other Women After My Husband Cheated And Had An Affair: Tips That Might Help

By: Katie Lersch: A wife can have serious trust issues after her husband cheats or has an affair.  After all, the person closest to her has betrayed her in a very personal and painful way.  Many wives find that not only do they have trouble trusting their husband, they have trouble trusting many different people, […]

Is It A Good Idea To Insist That A Husband Break Off All Contact With The Other Woman After Cheating Or Having An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives aren’t sure what to demand of their husband after he has been caught cheating or having an affair.  Many immediately want to demand that their husband cut off all contact with the other woman.  But sometimes, the husband balks at this request or well-meaning friends and family offer advice that […]

How Are You Supposed To Act Around The Husband Who Has Hurt You With His Cheating Or Affair?

By Katie Lersch: Many people wonder what happens now that the affair is out in the open.  Often, the discovery of the cheating or the affair is so emotional and volatile.  But then the days that follow present their own challenges.  Many people aren’t quite sure how they should act or how to carry out […]

How Do You Evaluate The Seriousness Of An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  Many wives are trying to figure out just how serious a threat their husband’s affair is to their marriage.  Some wives hope that the affair was just a fling that didn’t mean anything.  A wife could say: “after my repeatedly asking him, my husband finally admitted to an affair.  I knew something […]

Is It True That Infidelity Can Be Good For A Marriage?

By: Katie Lersch: Some people are either attempting to find justification of infidelity or they are trying to look on the bright side.  Here are some examples. I might hear from a man who has decided to cheat on his wife.   He will say something like: “my wife doesn’t meet my needs anymore.  My marriage […]

Soul Searching After Cheating Or An Affair: Why It’s Not A Waste Of Time

By: Katie Lersch: Both husbands and wives (as well as the faithful spouse and the cheating spouse) can be criticized for their decision to take time out to do some soul searching after one spouse has cheated or had an affair. An example of a cheating husband is something like: “after my wife found out […]

I Want To Expose The Other Woman For Who She Really Is. How Can I Do This?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives see their husband’s mistress or “other woman” very clearly and realistically when their husband just can’t do the same.  Many wives feel that the other woman is a gold digger, an opportunist, or a person of extremely low integrity, but they don’t know how to make their husband see or […]