Delayed Anger After The Affair: What Does It Mean And What Can You Do About It?

By: Katie Lersch: I very commonly hear from wives who are experiencing intense anger long after the affair has been discovered. Many wives are quite frustrated by this and don’t understand why it is happening so long after the fact. I heard from a wife who said: “for weeks after my husband’s affair, I was […]

Do I Tell The Other Woman That I Know She Is Cheating With My Husband?

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from women who aren’t sure how to proceed when they first find out that their husband is cheating. Often, they know many of the details, but the guilty parties aren’t aware of this knowledge.  And they wonder if they should confront their husband, the other woman, or both.  Many […]

My Husband Said He Only Had A Fling, Not An Affair. What’s The Difference?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives aren’t sure how to classify their husband’s infidelity.  This can be particularly true when the husband is claiming that his infidelity is not as bad as it could have been.  Many husbands will attempt to differentiate between a one night stand, a fling, cheating, and an affair.  I heard from […]

I Don’t Trust Other Women After My Husband Cheated And Had An Affair: Tips That Might Help

By: Katie Lersch:  It’s very common for a wife to have serious trust issues after her husband cheats or has an affair.  After all, the person closest to her has betrayed her in a very personal and painful way.  Many wives find that not only do they have trouble trusting their husband, they have trouble […]

Is It A Good Idea To Insist That A Husband Break Off All Contact With The Other Woman After Cheating Or Having An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who aren’t sure what to demand of their husband after he has been caught cheating or having an affair.  Many immediately want to demand that their husband cut off all contact with the other woman.  But sometimes, the husband balks at this request or well meaning friends […]

How Are You Supposed To Act Around The Husband Who Has Hurt You With His Cheating Or Affair?

By Katie Lersch: It’s pretty common for me to hear from people who are wondering what happens now that the affair is out in the open.  Often, the discovery of the cheating or the affair is so emotional and volatile.  But then the days that follow present their own challenges.  Many people aren’t quite sure […]

How Do You Evaluate The Seriousness Of An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are trying to figure out just how serious a threat their husband’s affair is to their marriage.  Some wives hope that the affair was just a fling that didn’t mean anything.  I heard from a wife who said: “after my repeatedly asking him, my husband finally […]

Is It True That Infidelity Can Be Good For A Marriage?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from people who are trying to either find justification of infidelity or they are trying to look on the bright side.  Here are some examples. I might hear from a man who has decided to cheat on his wife.   He will say something like: “my wife doesn’t meet my […]

Soul Searching After Cheating Or An Affair: Why It’s Not A Waste Of Time

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from both husbands and wives (as well as the faithful spouse and the cheating spouse) who are being criticized for their decision to take time out to do some soul searching after one spouse has cheated or had an affair. An example from a cheating husband is something like: […]

I Want To Expose The Other Woman For Who She Really Is. How Can I Do This?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who see their husband’s mistress or “other woman” very clearly and realistically when their husband just can’t do the same.  Many wives feel that the other woman is a gold digger, an opportunist, or a person of extremely low integrity, but they don’t know how to make […]

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