My Husband Promised To Tell The Truth About His Affair, But He Continues To Lie. What Now?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are not only devastated by their husband’s affair, but that are exasperated that he’s not telling them the whole truth even when he has promised to do so.  Trust is so important in the aftermath of infidelity, but it is very difficult to restore this trust […]

The Person I Had An Affair With Is Texting My Spouse

By: Katie Lersch: The aftermath of the affair is hard enough when the other person bows out gracefully and fully accepts that the affair is over. Unfortunately, this isn’t always what happens.  Sometimes, not only does the other person not accept that it’s over, they want to hurt the unfaithful person or their spouse in order […]

My Spouse Doesn’t Seem Committed After His Affair. What Can I Do?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from people who are very disappointed to discover that, despite their spouse’s claims to the contrary, they are just not seeing a lot of commitment after the infidelity.  Sometimes, the cheating spouse will promise that they will move heaven and earth to help save the marriage if only they […]

If He Lied About The Affair, Can The Marriage Be Saved?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from people who worry that all of the lies about the affair are going to mean that their marriage can’t be saved.  Sometimes, the person who had the affair has started to tell the truth, but other times, they are still lying.  And this can leave the faithful spouse […]

Why Did My Husband Have To Chose My Friend To Have An Affair With?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from women who are dealing with a double blow.  Not only have their just found out that their husband has been cheating, they have found out that their husband has been cheating or having an affair with one of their friends.  This can feel like a multiplied betrayal because […]

My Husband Is Saying That He Cheated On Me Because Of My Attitude. How Do I Respond To This?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from women who are frustrated and angry by the reasons that their husband is giving to justify his cheating or affair.  Sometimes, men will try to make it seem as if the other woman had something special to entice them into cheating.  And other times, the husband will try […]

The Other Woman Is Still Texting My Husband After The Affair Is Over: Tips That Might Help

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from women who are annoyed and troubled that the other woman is still trying to keep in contact with the husband. One common way that she will attempt to do this is through texting. That way, she doesn’t have to actually talk to him and risk rejection, but she […]

I Constantly Think About The Other Woman That My Husband Cheated And Had An Affair With. How Can I Stop?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who can’t stop very hurtful and repetitive thoughts about the woman with whom their husband has been cheating or having an affair. Common comments are things like this from a wife: “my husband and I are trying to repair our marriage and I am committed to that process. […]

Do Men Really Love The Mistress Or The Other Woman? Or Are They Just Infatuated?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are so hurt because their husband thinks that he is in love with the other woman or the mistress. And the wife sometimes has to begrudgingly admit that she can’t help but notice a change in her husband. He seems more carefree or optimistic. His outlook […]

My Spouse Won’t Even Speak To Me After An Affair. What Can I Do?

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from people who are desperately trying to reach out to their spouse after they’ve been caught having an affair, but they aren’t having any success at all with this.   Sometimes the faithful spouse not only won’t talk, but they refuse to listen also. It can feel as if […]

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