He Says He Lied About His Cheating To Save Our Marriage

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are absolutely baffled that their husband is justifying his lying about his infidelity by saying that keeping the truth from his wife was helping to save the marriage.  Needless to say, not many wives buy this.  But that doesn’t keep the husbands from continuing to use […]

My Husband Chose The Other Woman Over Our Family In The Past And I Can’t Forgive That

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who aren’t sure that their family will ever be able to heal after their husband chose the other woman over his wife and over his family.  The wife often doubts that she will ever be able to forgive this betrayal in order to move on. I heard […]

I Want For My Husband To Tell The Other Woman He Never Loved Her

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear  from women wives who want the other woman out of their lives and out of their minds.  Many of them figure that this process would be easier if they knew that she was out of their husband’s mind as well.  To that end, these wives would like to minimize […]

Should I Tell My Spouse That I Cheated Before We Were Married?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are riddled with guilt about a previous infidelity that has long been over.  On the one hand, they are grateful that their spouse doesn’t know about it because this means that their spouse is being spared the pain.  But on the other hand, they hate lying […]

My Husband Cheated And He’s Not Trying To Make It Up To Me. Why?

By: Katie Lersch:  I hear from a lot of women who are very unsatisfied with the way that their husband is handling his rehabilitation after his cheating or affair. In fact, many wives are very clear on the fact that he has a whole lot of making up to do. And as a result, she […]

Should I Leave My Husband If He Cheated?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who aren’t sure about what they want to happen with their marriage after their husband cheats.  Many are listening to friends who tell them that cheating is a deal breaker.  Many friends will offer up comments like: “if my husband was cheating on me, I’d leave him […]

How Do I Reassure My Spouse That I Won’t Cheat Again?

By: Katie Lersch:  Most of the people that I hear from on my blog are the spouses who were faithful. They are often looking for a way to save their marriage after infidelity while keeping their self worth in tact.  Occasionally though, I hear from the cheating spouse.  Believe it or not, these folks want […]

I Think My Husband Had An Affair Long Ago. Should I Confront Him About It?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who suspect an affair.  But sometimes, the affair is not a current event.  Some of these wives suspect an affair that has probably long been over. And they are wondering if whether, after so much time, it is even worth it to mention it now. I heard […]

If A Man Wants A Divorce, Why Doesn’t He Just Ask For It Before Cheating Or Having An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are nearly positive that their husband wants a divorce after they have caught him cheating or having an affair.  And many feel that this whole situation is an awful waste.  Because they wonder why he didn’t just tell them how unhappy he was or ask for […]

Is It Better To Divorce Or To Stay Married After The Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from women who aren’t sure what to do about their marriage after their husband cheats or has an affair.  Some of them genuinely want to save their marriage, but they aren’t sure if this is going to be possible – or even healthy. I heard from a wife who […]

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