My Husband Has Promised To Remain Faithful After His Affair But I’m Not Sure If I Believe Him

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who want so much to believe that their husband will remain faithful after he has already had one affair.  Many of these wives are dealing with a husband who is making all sorts of promises to remain faithful and to never even look at another woman again. […]

My Spouse Told My Kids About My Affair

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from folks who are furious that their spouse has taken it upon themselves to inform other family members about their affair.  This is bad enough if the family member is a parent or sibling, but it is especially bad if the family member is a child.  I heard from […]

How Often Should You Talk About The Affair When Trying To Heal?

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from folks who aren’t sure how much they need to keep rehashing the affair in order to fully heal from it.  Typically, the faithful spouse feels the need to talk about it quite a bit while the cheating spouse would rather it not be the most common topic of […]

How Can I Feel Better About Myself After My Spouse’s Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I so often hear from wives (and sometimes husbands too) who feel extremely bad about themselves because of their spouse’s cheating or affair.  Yes, the betrayal hurts horribly.  But even often, the hit to your self esteem and your self worth can hurt just as bad.  I heard from a wife who […]

Is An Emotional Affair Worse Than A Physical Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who ask for my opinion on whether a physical or emotional affair is worse for your marriage and your own well being.  Many wives see their own situation as the one which is the worst.  I heard from a woman who said: “my husband had an emotional […]

My Husband Feels Remorse About How He Treated The Other Woman. It Annoys Me That He Still Cares.

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are in pain that their husband still seems to care about the feelings of the other woman with whom he cheated or had an affair. Many are annoyed that he still seems to care about her feelings. And some wives even feel that he is more […]

My Spouse Is Always Throwing My Affair Back Up In My Face

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from couples who are having a very hard time putting the affair behind them for  good.  Often, the cheating spouse is more than happy to move on while the faithful spouse just can’t seem to leave the past where it belongs.  I heard from a wife who said: “a […]

How To Feel Loved Again After Your Husband Cheats Or Has An Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are feeling horrible in several areas of their life and in their marriage after their husband cheats or has an affair.  Often, one of the biggest issues that they face is that they do not feel truly loved.  This can be true even if their husband […]

I Hate Myself For Cheating On My Spouse: Insights That Might Help

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are so angry at themselves for cheating or having an affair, that they have come to hate not only their actions, but they also hate themselves.  I heard from a woman who said: “I cheated on my husband.  It was the worst mistake I have ever […]

I Want An Apology From The Other Woman. Is This Wrong Or Too Much To Ask?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are adamant that they want a face to face meeting with the woman who cheated with their husband because she wants a heartfelt apology. I heard from a wife who said: “I actually knew the other woman.  She lives in our neighborhood and she works out […]

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