I Feel So Stupid After My Husband Cheated And Had An Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who describe themselves as “naive” or “stupid” after they realize that their husband has been cheating or having an affair.  They often become angry with themselves for not seeing it coming or for not being more suspicious.  They often blame themselves just as much as they blame their […]

I Kicked My Husband Out Because He Cheated And Had An Affair. Should I Ignore Him Now?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who were so angry about their husband’s infidelity, that they can’t stand the sight of him or the thought of him living under the same roof. So, they kick him out of the house. But, with that accomplished, many wonder what should happen afterward. They aren’t sure […]

My Spouse Wants To Separate Because Of His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are suffering from a double blow. Not only have they found out that their spouse has been cheating or having an affair, but they are also dealing with the fact that their cheating spouse is pushing for a separation. I heard from a wife who said: […]

My Spouse Says It’s Too Soon To Be Intimate Again After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: Many people assume that if a couple have sexual problems after one of them has cheated and had an affair, it is because the faithful spouse just doesn’t want to be intimate with someone who has been unfaithful. Sometimes, surprisingly, it is the exact opposite. The scenario in which the cheating spouse […]

My Spouse Is Furious That I Told My Family About His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are dealing with more than just their spouse’s cheating or affair. They are dealing with their spouses anger over the fact that they didn’t keep the dirty little secret all to themselves. Often, when the faithful spouse shares the infidelity with his or her family, the cheating […]

I Am So Ashamed For Having An Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are consumed with guilt and shame because of the extra marital affair for which they never planned. Often, they never intended to cheat on their spouse. Many used to harshly judge friends or colleagues when they cheated because they always thought that this was something that […]

My Husband Just Wants To Ignore His Cheating And Pretend It Never Happened. But I Can’t.

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives whose husband would like nothing more than for the wife to erase his infidelity from her mind and to never speak of it again. Of course, this is sometimes next to impossible for the wife, but the husband often can’t or won’t understand this. I heard from […]

My Husband’s Mistress Lives With Us. How Can I Put A Stop To The Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear about somewhat strange situations that involve infidelity.  Occasionally, I hear of a situation in which the “other woman” is actually living with the husband and his wife.  As you might expect, the wife often wants to end this situation as soon as is possible. I heard from a wife […]

My Husband Says I Talk About His Affair Too Much

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who feel that they are hearing complaining or even scolding for something that is almost their right – continuously talking about their husband’s past affair or indiscretions. Wives often feel as if they have a right to continue to ask questions or to continue to bring up […]

Now That I’ve Cheated, My Spouse Wants To Cheat Too

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from people who are terrified that their spouse is going to cheat on them.  Worse, they know somewhere deep in their heart that their spouse might have this right because the cheating would be in retaliation.  In this situation, one spouse has cheated so the other feels the need […]

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