My Husband Doesn’t Seem To Want To Be Close Again After His Affair.

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from faithful spouses who are more than willing to try to rebuild their marriage after their spouse’s affair.  Often though, even though their spouse says that he agrees with this, he seems to be holding something back.  While the faithful spouse is willing to set aside their pain, anger, […]

Things Aren’t Getting Any Better With Time After My Husband’s Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who don’t feel that they are making sufficient progress after their spouse’s infidelity. Often, they have been told that it will get better and so they wait for the day that this becomes a reality. Only, things never seems to improve. I heard from a wife who […]

My Husband Says He Doesn’t Reach Out To Me After His Affair Because He’s Afraid Of Rejection

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are torn between the need for physical reassurance after their husband’s affair and of the feeling that they are unsure about wanting affection from a man who cheated on them. And yet, some of them admit that they needn’t have worried about this in the first […]

Why Is The Other Woman Saying They’re Still Having An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are very upset that the other woman with whom their husband cheated is still trying to be involved in the couple’s lives.  Often, one way that she will attempt to do this is to claim that the affair is still going on or that she knows […]

My Husband Says I Took Him Back After His Cheating Only To Get Revenge

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from folks who are really struggling with their marriage after infidelity. Often, despite their best efforts, there are leftover issues that are whittling away at the marriage. It’s normal for the faithful spouse to still feel angry and resentful. Unfortunately, this can make the cheating spouse feel as if […]

My Spouse Cheated And Had An Affair And I Just Want To Run Away

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are overwhelmed to learn that their spouse has been unfaithful.  Sometimes, they just can not picture any scenario in which things could ever be right again.  They can’t imagine what life will be like now.  And many see just taking flight as an attractive option. I […]

I Constantly Have A Feeling That I Can’t Trust The Husband Who Previously Had An Emotional Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from women with very understandable, but very serious, trust issues that they are struggling to overcome.  Most of the time, their suspicions are justified but sometimes they are overly sensitive to any uncomfortable twinges because of infidelity in their past. I heard from a wife who said: “three years […]

Will My Husband’s Affair End My Marriage?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are trying their very best to save their marriage despite their husband’s recent affair.  In my not so objective opinion, it takes a lot of courage to have that kind of faith and determination in spite of that kind of unbearable betrayal and pain.  I know […]

What’s Wrong With Me For Staying After My Husband’s Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who don’t feel very good about themselves when they are still with a man who cheated on them.  Before the infidelity happened or was discovered, many wives were sure that they would be out of the marriage immediately should any infidelity ever occur.  However, sometimes the reality […]

My Husband Apparently Told The Other Woman He’s In Love With Her And He’s Telling Me The Same Thing

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are in the unfortunate situation of sharing information with the woman with whom their husband has been cheating.  Often, the other woman has contacted the wife but sometimes, it is the other way around. Sometimes, whether it is intentional or not, they end up comparing notes. […]

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