I Love My Husband But I Don’t Want To Forgive His Infidelity

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are unsure if they will ever be inclined to forgive their husband for cheating or having an affair. Unfortunately, society often gives these wives not so subtle messages about the necessity of forgiving sooner rather than later. I heard from a wife who said: “my husband […]

How Can I Get My Spouse Back After I Cheated?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks who are looking for advice in order to help them get back their spouse after they have cheated or had an affair.  They often worry that it’s too late and this hurts them deeply because there is nothing that they can do to turn back time.   […]

My Husband Says He Loves Me And Yet He Continues On With The Affair.

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from wives who are wondering if their husband is lying when he claims to love them while carrying on an affair that he can not seem to let go of.  The wives often suspect him of lying and of being present only because he doesn’t want to pay for […]

When Will My Husband Realize His Affair Is A Mistake?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are so frustrated because their husband seems to have blinders on when it comes to the other woman with whom he is having an affair.  Often, it is as if their husband has lost all of his common sense, at least where she is concerned.  Much […]

What Gift Should I Give My Spouse To Make Up For My Infidelity?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from spouses who want to offer some sort of gift to indicate how sorry they are for cheating or for having an affair.  And yet, everything that they consider seems wrong. They want to get the perfect object that shows their sincerity in moving forward.  But they aren’t sure […]

My Husband Is Very Attentive And Affectionate After His Affair, But I Don’t Trust It

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who honestly can’t find any fault with the way that their husband is acting toward them.  Typically, he is being very affectionate after his affair- almost overly so.  And this can make the wife doubt his sincerity and she can question her ability to trust his actions. […]

Why Does He Keep Going Back To The Other Woman?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who very much want to save their marriage but who don’t know how much longer they are going to be able to tolerate feeling as if they need to compete with the other woman.  Often, the husband has promised that the relationship is over. And yet, for […]

Should A Wife Play Hard To Get After My Husband’s Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who aren’t sure how they should be acting after they have discovered their husband’s affair. Often, they take some time to determine what they ultimately want to happen. And when they decide that they might want to save their marriage, they still want to do it in […]

Would A Man Really Stay In An Affair So The Other Woman Wouldn’t Tell The Wife?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who just aren’t buying their husband’s excuses with regards to his affair.  One common complaint is husbands having a lame excuse as to why the affair lasted as long as it did.  Many times, his excuse doesn’t even sound plausible. I heard from a wife who said: […]

My Husband Wants To Work On My Marriage, But He’s In Love With Another Woman

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear with wives who feel that, no matter what their husband is claiming at the time, they are dealing with very serious infidelity within their marriage and, as a result, they are not sure that their marriage is going to survive.  Often, their husband is assuring them that, despite his […]

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