Can You Be More In Love With Your Spouse After Infidelity?

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from people who are wondering if they should believe their spouse’s claims that he is more in love with them after he has made the mistake of cheating or having an affair.  Often, they truly want to believe him because they want to have some security after having been […]

How Do You Make Things Fair Or Even After The Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from people who feel short changed after their spouse cheated or had an affair.  They often feel that they were the one who had to do all of the forgiving and who had to make all of the concessions while their spouse is the one who gets to make […]

Will My Spouse Take Me Back After My Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who very much regret having an affair. Not only do they often realize too late that the affair was a huge mistake, but now they must face the fact that they have also put their marriage in jeopardy. Many soon realize that living with this type of […]

How Long Will My Spouse Want To Talk About The Infidelity?

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from spouses who are genuinely remorseful for their infidelity but who are also genuinely tired of having to talk about, discuss, or rehash the details of the affair endlessly.  They often wonder just how many times they are going to have to go over the same details.  They wonder […]

My Husband Doesn’t Want To Come Home After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are dealing with some very difficult truths.  First of all, they are dealing with the fact that their husband has been unfaithful and having an affair.  And second, they are dealing with a husband who now doesn’t want to return home and who doesn’t know if […]

How Should He Be Acting After The Affair If He Truly Wants To Save Our Marriage?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives whose cheating husband’s words are saying one thing, but whose actions are saying another.  Often, the husband is claiming that he would do anything to save his marriage but, at the same time, he is acting angry, distant, and resentful.  The wife can not help but wonder […]

Why Can I Not Completely Move On After My Husband’s Infidelity?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who don’t feel as if they have completely healed since their husband’s affair.  This can be true regardless of whether or not they stayed with their husband.  Often, no matter what has happened or how much time has passed, they still feel like they haven’t let go […]

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