My Husband Is Asking Me To Please Be Patient Since He’s Having An Affair. But How Can I?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives whose husband has been caught having an affair and who can not come to an immediate decision as to how he is going to handle this. And that is usually when he starts using phrases like “please just give me a little time” or “if you could […]

I Know That My Husband Is Really Trying To Do The Right Thing After His Affair, But I’m Still So Angry

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who feel a little guilty that they haven’t made more progress after their spouse’s affair. This can especially be true if the cheating spouse is very obviously doing everything in his or her power to make things right once again. Common comments are things like: “I truly […]

My Husband Just Confessed His Love For Another Woman. What Should I Do?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are hurt and worried about their husband’s sudden confession.  Often, their husband has sat them down and confessed that he has feelings for another woman. Sometimes, he will try to downplay these feelings and tell the wife that although he does have some romantic feelings for […]

My Husband Doesn’t Want Any Consequences For His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people are fed up with their spouse’s reluctance to accept the consequences for their affair. After all, they are the ones who chose to cheat. Now, they should be prepared to act like a mature adult who is not only committed to fixing their marriage, but who is […]

How Do I Get My Spouse To Listen To Me After He Had An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from spouses who aren’t feeling heard after their spouse has cheated or had an affair. Often, they want to have long and difficult conversations about this. And they want for their spouse to listen to them. Unfortunately though, many cheating spouses will resist this because the difficult conversations make […]

I Would Give Anything If I Never Had The Affair: Tips That Might Help

ByL Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who feel deep regret about a past affair. Often, with the passage of time, the depth of their mistake becomes more and more clear. This, coupled with the fact that they are now facing the consequences of their actions, can make them feel the weight of their mistake. […]

I Cheated On My Spouse And I Don’t Really Feel Any Remorse. Should I Pretend To Be Sorry?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who aren’t feeling the sorrow and remorse that their spouse wants to see after they cheated or had an affair. Often, they know that they should feel it. They sometimes wish that they did feel it. But whatever reason, they just don’t. And they aren’t sure if they […]

Is My Husband Hurt Because The Affair Ended?

By: Katie Lersch: I very often hear from spouses who are wondering how their spouse is feeling after his affair has ended. And they are often wondering because their spouse is reluctant or refusing to share how he feels. Still, despite the secrecy, it’s often obvious that he is struggling. Because he’s often moping around with […]

My Spouse Is Not Interested In Me After The Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who deeply regret that their relationship with their spouse has changed after one spouse has cheated and had an affair. Often, they feel sure that their spouse no longer has a romantic interest in them. And this can happen with either the cheating spouse or the faithful […]

The Person That I Am Cheating With Is Threatening To Tell My Spouse. What Now?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from panicked people who are being threatened by the person with whom they are cheating.  Often, they are dragging their feet toward taking the affair to the next level.  So their cheating partner begins to apply some pressure by threatening to tell their spouse about the infidelity.  And that […]

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