My Spouse Says I Must Prove My Love After My Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who deeply regret cheating, but who are also at a loss as to how to convince their spouse that they can be rehabilitated and as a result turn out to be a loyal and loving spouse once again. They often have already stressed how sorry they are. […]

Can Some Men Have Only One Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are just beginning to attempt to come to terms with their husband’s affair. Often, they are at the stage where they are trying to determine if they can ever trust their husband again and, if so, if this means that they are going to chose to […]

Is It Really An Affair If You Are Married In Name Only?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are desperately trying to come up with legitimate reasons to explain away having an affair. Sometimes, this request comes from the “other woman” or the “other man” in an affair. Quite understandably, no one wants to be seen as a home wrecker and no one wants […]

How Much Time Should Someone Invest To Try To Save Their Marriage After An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who aren’t sure if they are taking too much time to see any progress with their marriage after an affair has damaged it. Often, people become impatient when they don’t yet see the progress that they had hoped for. Many worry that the lack of progress after […]

My Spouse Is Afraid That I Will Cheat Because He Did

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from spouses who are dealing with one additional and unexpected problem that stemmed from their spouse’s affair. The cheating spouse is now afraid and paranoid that the faithful spouse is going to cheat in retaliation or because she’s no longer as committed to the marriage as she once was. […]

What Do I Do Now That I Know My Spouse Is Cheating?

By: Katie Lersch: Frankly, it sometimes starts as just a feeling that something is off with your husband. And, sometimes, you feel crazy or paranoid. Some faithful spouses are completely caught off guard by the cheating, but many find out because they set out to do just that. They just feel in their gut that […]

My Spouse Is Not Attempting To Come Home After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are extremely concerned about their spouse’s behavior and what this in turn means for their marriage after an affair. A big concern happens when the cheating spouse makes no attempt to come home. This can leave the faithful spouse wondering what this turn of events means […]

My Spouse Had An Affair And I Don’t Think He’s Over It

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who have no doubt that their husband has ended his affair. They have often kept very close tabs on him and are satisfied that he is no longer seeing the other woman. Unfortunately though, even though he is no longer with her physically the wife worries that […]

My Husband Is Reluctant To Work On Our Marriage While He’s Having An Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who have made the difficult decision to try to save their marriages while their husband has had an affair. Often, this is not at all an easy decision. They are often quite hurt and afraid but they chose to put their understandable concerns aside for the sakes […]

Why Did My Spouse Have An Affair?

By Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are looking for answers in regards to their spouse’s affair. They are looking for these answers because their spouse has been unwilling or unable to provide them. One of the biggest questions that the faithful spouse will have is simply “why?” They want to know why […]