Why Has My Husband Not Apologized For His Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are both disappointed and confused as to why their spouse hasn’t expressed sorrow, regret, or an apology about cheating or having an affair. Because it’s not as if they don’t deserve one. Cheating is one of the worst things that you can do to someone you […]

How Long Does It Take For The Feelings For The Other Person In The Affair To Fade?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks who really do want to save their marriages but who are also struggling with moving on from the affair. Often, they really do love their spouse and they want to stay with their spouse. But, they can not deny that they are experiencing some residual feelings for […]

Will My Cheating Husband Come Back For The Kids?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are trying any number of strategies to get their cheating husband to come home. Often, they first try to appeal to his sense of right and wrong. Then, they may appeal to his sense of commitment. Or, they may try to get him to remember the […]

He’s The One Who Cheated. But Now He Is Suspicious, Doesn’t Trust Me, And Is Always Accusing Me Of Cheating

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who have a husband who is trying to turn the tables on them after his cheating. Typically, the husband is the one who had the affair. And the wife has every right to be suspicious of him moving forward. But this doesn’t matter because all of a […]

How Much Time Should I Give My Spouse To End The Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I can’t think of any time in my life where I was in as much pain as when my husband had an affair. I can’t imagine that it would get much worse than this, unless that same husband refused to end the affair. Unfortunately, I hear from many wives in this situation. […]

My Husband Has Decided That He Wants To Be With The Other Woman / Mistress. But I Still Love Him. What Is Wrong With Me?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from women who are somewhat embarrassed by the fact that they are still in love with the husband who has not only betrayed them, but also has momentarily chosen the other woman over them. This often makes the wife quite angry with herself and she wonders how she could […]

How Can I Make My Husband Forget The Other Woman?

By:Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are not only dealing with insecurities about themselves and their own desirability after their husband’s affair, they are also having the worry about their husband still thinking about (or longing after) the other woman. They worry that this means that he’s not ever going to truly be […]

We Were Married But Living Separately When My Spouse Cheated

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are not at all buying their spouse’s excuse for cheating when the two of them were living apart. Often, jobs, responsibilities, or circumstances outside of their control mandate that they have to live separately for awhile. Often, there was no clear understanding that these living arrangements […]

My Husband Says There Was No Emotion Involved In The Affair, But The Other Woman Disagrees

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are extremely motivated to know if there was an emotional connection with their husband’s affair partner. Many wives fear the emotional connection more than anything else, which is often why the husband will try to deny that there was one. However, the wife often isn’t satisfied […]

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