My Husband Still Feels Sorry For The Other Woman.

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are dealing with an additional problem concerning their spouse’s affair. As if their spouse’s infidelity wasn’t bad enough, their spouse is still somewhat invested with the other person because of pity or empathy. And it’s not unheard of for the other person to try to play […]

Should My Spouse Tell Me If He Has Any Contact With The Other Person He Cheated With?

By: Katie Lersch: One of the biggest problems that keeps a couple struggling when they are trying to save their marriage after an affair is the presence of the other person. Even though the affair is theoretically over, the threat of the other person somehow remains. Sometimes, this isn’t an accident because the cheating spouse […]

If I Make My Husband Block The Other Woman’s Phone Number, Will He Stop Communicating With Her?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are extremely frustrated that their husband is telling them that he wants to save his marriage and that he has ended the affair and yet, they are finding clear and distinct evidence that he is in phone contact with the other woman. So, understandably, the wife […]

Why Does My Husband Find It So Hard To Show Me Affection After His Affair?

By Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who truly want to see if it’s possible to save their marriage after their spouse’s affair. However, quite understandably, they have a good deal of doubt as to whether or not this is going to be possible. One of their biggest concerns is whether their husband still […]

The Affair Is Over And Things Are Going Well In My Marriage, But I Still Love The Other Person

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who feel as if they have dodged a serious threat to their marriage. They have ended the affair and they have worked very hard to strengthen their marriage. And things appear to be going well. However, try as they might, they just can’t stop experiencing very troublesome […]

My Husband Said He Loved The Other Woman But Is Now Saying He Loves Me. I Don’t Know What To Believe.

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are hearing conflicting stories from their husband when it comes to his feelings about the other woman in the affair. Sometimes, when the affair is first discovered, the husband will express real feelings for the other woman. Often, he thinks that having legitimate feelings will make […]

Regaining The Respect Of Your Spouse After The Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from cheating spouses who want to make things right in their marriage. And a big obstacle to making this happen is that their spouse has lost respect for them. Their spouse may have viewed them in one way before the discovery of the affair, but they view them in […]

How Can I Keep My Husband Away From The Other Woman After An Affair? How Do I Make Him Understand He Needs To Stay Away?

By: Katie Lersch: Often, the most painful thing in dealing with an affair is also dealing with the other woman. This is especially true if the husband seems reluctant to give her up or to stay away from her. When this is the case, the wife will often try to determine ways that she can […]

My Husband Is Now Friends With The Other Woman. How Am I Supposed To Handle This?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who desperately want the other woman out of their lives. The affair is supposedly over. The husband supposedly wants to save his marriage and to move on. So, when he maintains friendly contact with the other woman, the wife can be left with a very difficult situation. […]

Why Does My Husband Keep Saying That The Other Woman Isn’t Important?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are so frustrated that their husband will not address the topic of the other woman in the affair. Often, the wife wants all of the details about her and about what it was that brought the two of them together. The husband, however, will often resist […]

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