Will Things Ever Feel Normal Again After The Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are still waiting for the day when their lives (and their marriages) will feel “normal” or “right” again after their spouse’s affair. Often, they feel as if they are patiently waiting for a day that might never come because, despite their best efforts, they just aren’t […]

My Spouse Is Depressed And We’re Both Worried That He Is Going To Cheat Again

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who feel fairly certain that their spouse’s depression played a huge role in his or her cheating. Very often, treating (or at least effectively addressing) the depression is a big part of recovery. So when the depression returns, there are real concerns that the cheating is also […]

If I’m Only In My Marriage For My Kids, Can Or Should I Cheat?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are very unhappy in their marriage but who stay in the same because of their children. Many times, they are children of divorce who has vowed that they will never put their own children through the same single parent childhood that they themselves had. As a […]

Why Does My Husband Feel The Need To Make Amends To The Other Woman

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are confused and frustrated that their husband seems to be concerned about what the other woman thinks of him – even after the affair is supposedly over. This concern makes the wife wonder why he even cares and if this is yet one other thing that […]