My Husband Says He Wants Our Marriage, But I Am Starting To Think That He Wants The Other Woman Instead

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are dealing with a husband who is swearing that he is still committed to her and to his marriage – despite the fact that he has had an affair. And he is often promising to end the affair (although the wife might have a feeling that […]

My Friends Hate Me For Taking Back My Cheating Husband

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are getting a lot of backlash from the people who they love for taking back a cheating husband. This is a very difficult situation. Because a wife will generally have her own doubts and worries in this scenario, but having to deal with the anger and […]

The Other Woman Says That My Husband Only Used Her

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who have been contacted by the woman with whom their husband has cheated. Often, this is not a welcome communication. It is often unexpected and, at least some of the time, the wife is tempted to just hang up or walk away to end the conversation. But […]

My Husband Wants To Go To Counseling For His Affairs. Is It Really Worth It?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who have serious doubts that their marriage stands a chance after their husband had an affair. Sometimes, the husband disagrees and thinks that the marriage can be saved. And he’s willing to do just about anything to prove to the wife that he’s right, including going to […]

For How Long Can An Affair Go On?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives whose husbands are still actively having an affair. And they are trying to determine what type of situation they might be facing. For whatever reason, the husband is reluctant to break off the affair or to let the woman go. So, the wife wants to know for […]

My Husband Says He Feels Empty After The Affair. What Does This Mean?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are trying to decipher their spouse’s comments and feelings after he has cheated or had an affair. Sometimes, it almost seems as if he is talking in riddles. Common comments that cause for confusion and doubt are things like “I feel empty and lost and I […]

A Fling Versus An Affair. How Are They Different? Which Is Worse?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people whose cheating spouse has tried to make a distinction about their infidelity. They are insisting that their infidelity consisted of “only a fling” and was not a full blown affair. Many are very adamant and careful about making this distinction because they believe that it truly makes […]

Why Do Marriages Fail After An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are trying to educate themselves about the challenges that they, and their marriage, might be facing after their spouse cheats or has an affair. Many are at least somewhat open to the idea of saving their marriage. But, they have concerns as to how feasible this […]

I’m Worried My Spouse Has A Lack Of Remorse About HIs Affair. What Signs Should I Look For To Indicate He’s Sorry?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who really want to see obvious, true, and strong remorse for their spouse’s affair. Because they fear that, without this remorse, their spouse is likely to either keep cheating, cheat again, or not be willing to work hard enough to save the marriage and to restore the […]

How Should I End My Affair? What Is The Best Way To Do It?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks who know that it is time to end their affair, but they aren’t sure how to go about it. They know that this is going to cause pain, but they also know that it must be done. However, they aren’t sure how to do it in the […]

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