We Want To Work Things Out After The Affair. But Is It Better If We Separate For A While First?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from couples who are trying to determine the easiest and most effective way to work things out after one of them has had an affair. One concern that they will often have if is one of them should leave the house and move out for a bit or whether […]

My Husband Admits To An Affair, But Denies Having Sex. Does This Really Even Matter?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks whose spouse is attempting to make a very big distinction about his affair by claiming that sexual intercourse never took place. The spouse isn’t denying that there was inappropriate contact and emotional infidelity, but he is insisting that the relationship was never consummated and that this should […]

How Can I Keep My Self Respect If I Stay With My Cheating, Unfaithful Husband?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are just starting to consider the idea of staying with the husband who was unfaithful. And many of them are struggling with this idea because they can’t imagine how any woman with an ounce of self esteem or self respect would stay with a man who […]

The Other Woman Keeps Telling My Husband She’s Missing Him. And It’s Months After The Affair Was Totally Over

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who wish that the other woman would leave their husbands alone. Sometimes, the affair has been over for quite some time. And yet, the other woman is still making a pest of herself, trying to reach out to the husband, and trying to let him know how […]

How Do You Forgive A Spouse Who Won’t Confess To Cheating Or Having An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: Sometimes, I hear from a spouse who is fully aware that their spouse is cheating and having an affair. They feel that they have sufficient proof to know the whole truth. In their hearts, they know that he is cheating and they are more than ready to deal with that. At this […]