Why Do I Feel No Remorse For Being Unfaithful To (And Cheating On) My Spouse

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who truly don’t understand why they aren’t feeling sorrow and remorse for being unfaithful to their spouse. Most will tell you that if you had told them a year ago that they would have cheated on or betrayed their spouse, they never would have believed it. In […]

My Husband Cheated On Me After Eighteen Years Of Marriage And Now There Is Nothing Left

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from long term couples who are struggling because one of them has cheated or had an affair. Many are quite shocked that, after being married and faithful for all of this time (decades in some cases,) their spouse would betray them now. They sometimes feel as if they have […]

Men Who Cheat And Want Their Wife Back: What Is Their Thought Process?

By Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are confused as to why a man would cheat on his wife and then suddenly want to break off the affair because he wants his wife back. Sometimes, the person who is confused about this process is the woman with whom the husband is cheating. And […]

I Cheated On My Spouse. How Can I Feel Good About Myself Again?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who regret cheating on their spouse more than they can possibly express. Because they can’t change this and they have to face all of the hurt and pain that they have caused, this can make them feel incredibly badly about themselves. To demonstrate, I might hear a […]

My Husband Is Delusional About Life After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who feel very conflicting emotions. Although they are very relieved that their husband has ended his affair and recommitted to the marriage, they are very disturbed at his new outlook on life. He seems to have changed. And the changes, at least in the wife’s eyes, aren’t […]

My Spouse Says He Forgives Me For The Affair, But He Still Seems Deeply Hurt

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from spouses who wish that their spouse, partner, or significant other had made progress toward healing after their affair. Although they know that the affair was all their fault and they have vowed to be patient and not to pressure their spouse, it can be a real challenge to […]

My Husband Is Not Being Supportive After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who aren’t getting the support that they expected and hoped for after their husband has cheated or had an affair. The expectation is usually that since he was the one who made the choice to cheat, then he must now do everything in his power to help […]

I Don’t Love My Spouse Anymore After My Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are now convinced that, after they have cheated and had an affair, there is no hope for their marriage. And, this isn’t because their spouse won’t ever forgive the affair. It’s because they have come to the conclusion that they no longer love their spouse and […]

Why Do Men Still Have Sex With Their Wives When Their Having An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from women who are wondering why the cheating husband is still having sex with his wife while he is actively having an affair. Sometimes, this question comes from the wife herself. And, other times, it comes from the other woman. So, from the other woman, you might hear a […]

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