Can The Other Woman Make The Husband Hate His Wife?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who feel sure that the other woman has “poisoned” her husband’s mind and turned his thoughts and feelings against her. In fact, some wives feel that this strategy of the other woman’s has been so successful that the husband now hates his wife – all because of […]

Why Do Men Who Have Affairs Blame Their Wives For Everything?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are furious because now that it is time for their husband to own up to his cheating, not only is he not being accountable, but he is placing most of the blame on his wife rather than himself. It seems that she is to blame for […]

Why Would A Husband Not Pursue His Wife After Ending His Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are confused about their husband’s actions and behaviors after an affair. Many believe that as soon as they can finally get their husband to end the affair, then the only thing left is for their husband to show genuine remorse, to pursue his wife and his […]

How Do I Walk Away From The Affair When The Other Person Matters So Much To Me?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are well aware that the affair they are having is absolutely wrong. Many never would have believed that they would ever cheat on their spouse. And now, they are horribly ashamed of their actions. Plus, they know that the right thing to do would be to […]

How Many Marriages Are Happy After An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who truly do believe that saving their marriage after their spouse’s affair would be ideal. This is what they’d truly like to happen – at least in a perfect world. But when that same world has been shattered by the deepest betrayal imaginable, then it’s hard to […]

Why Is The Affair Sex Better Than Sex With Your Spouse?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who have cheated on their spouse by having an affair. Often, these folks do have a good bit of remorse and they want to do right by their spouse. Many truly would like to repair their marriages in order to keep their families together. But, many have […]

I Feel Like The Other Woman Has Won Because My Husband Continues To See Her

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from women who almost feel as if they are in a competition with the woman with whom their husband has been cheating. Sometimes, the husband has promised to end things, but it later becomes obvious that he can’t, won’t, or hasn’t. Other times, he is honest about the fact […]

Why Do I Feel Like I Have To Impress My Husband After He Had An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who feel that their relationship has become a bit lopsided after their husband has cheated or had an affair. Many expected that their husband will try to make amends or to work hard to impress them with his sincerity and hard work. Instead, the wife feels that […]

How Long Should I Stay Mad At My Husband For His Cheating?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who wonder for how long they are expected to have an angry attitude toward their husband after he has cheated. Frankly, some women have no problems maintaining their anger. In fact, it is hard for some to envision a time when their anger might fade into something […]

He Cheated On Me And Wants To Go To Counseling. Should I Agree And Go? Is It Even Worth It?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from women who are struggling to come to a decision about their relationship after their boyfriend, partner or husband has cheated on them. If this isn’t confusing and upsetting enough, he’s often begging her to go to counseling so that she won’t leave him right away. An example is […]

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