Ever Since I Found Out About My Spouse’s Affair, He’s Been Snooping Through My Emails Trying To Catch Me Doing Something Wrong

By: Katie Lersch: It’s somewhat normal for a spouse who has just been caught cheating to try to divert the attention away from their actions by any means possible. They will try in vain to justify their behavior in any number of ways, like trying to make excuses, trying to point out the flaws in […]

How Do I Prevent A Revenge Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people on both side’s of the affair who are trying to prevent “a revenge affair” from their spouse. You might hear from the faithful spouse (who is now tempted to cheat themselves in order to show their spouse how it feels to be betrayed in this way.) Or, […]

Are People Who Have Affairs Ashamed Or Embarrassed By Their Behavior?

By: Katie Lersch: It’s just human nature to doubt the claims of someone who has already lied to or cheated on you. So, the spouse who had an affair can claim that he is beyond remorseful, ashamed, embarrassed and even mortified by his behavior. But his wife can’t help wondering why he wasn’t feeling any […]

What Do People Learn After Having An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: We all want to believe that difficult times, and huge mistakes ultimately end up being lessons that teach us how to be a better person. It’s often said that failure is the only way that you learn. But what happens when you fail at your marriage by being unfaithful? What do you […]