Will My Insecure Feelings Go Away When I Believe He’s Really Stopped Cheating?

By: Katie Lersch: Even if you are a very secure person and even if, as woman, you are fully aware of your value and your worth, it is hard not to have your self esteem and your self image negatively affected if your spouse cheats on you. Even if you completely see every single one […]

How Does The Other Woman In The Affair Think? What Is Her Thought Process?

By: Katie Lersch: I believe it is understandable that many wives are extremely curious about the other woman in the affair. Actually, curious may be too light of a word. For many of us, obsessed is more accurate. Many of us want to know everything that we can about this other woman. But if I […]

My Husband Cheated On Me When I Was Supporting Him Financially

By: Katie Lersch: It’s not uncommon for me to hear from spouses who have been cheated on in all sorts of unique situations. Make no mistake about it, being cheated on at any time is painful and unfair. But there are some circumstances that seem particularly cruel.  Being cheated on while pregnant or ill are […]

What Do Men Say To The Other Woman To Get Her To Cheat With Him?

By: Katie Lersch: I find that, depending on who you are talking to, you will get a different take on who was the pursuer in the affair. Sometimes, the other woman’s family and friends assume that the husband was the aggressor in the affair. Sometimes, the other man’s wife will assume that it was the […]

My Spouse Claims To Be Repulsed By The Other Woman After His Affair. Could This Possibly Be True?

By: Katie Lersch: It’s pretty common knowledge that spouses who have been caught cheating will sometimes do everything in their power in order to minimize the impact of their cheating. They will claim that the other person meant nothing. They will claim that they now see undesirable things about the other person that they didn’t […]

My Husband Has Gotten Very Quiet After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: Many people assume that as soon as someone is caught having an affair, they are going to suddenly want to start blabbing. After all, if they care anything about their spouse or about their marriage, they are going to want to explain this. And, in order to do this, it’s going to […]

How Do I Regain The Sexual Attraction To My Spouse After My Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: It is not unusual for one or both spouses to lose sexual desire in general or for one another after the discovery of an affair. Most of the time, people are more focused on the betrayal and the dishonesty to think about sex all that much. However, if the couple attempt to […]

How Can I Make My Husband Understand That His Affair Was Just An Escape?

By: Katie Lersch: It’s not unusual for people to make the affair out to be a grand love affair when they are right in the middle of it. After all, who is going to do something so destructive that it risks their family life and their marriage for feelings that are only lukewarm or mediocre? […]

What Can you Do With A Dead Marriage After An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  Many people have no idea if they even want their marriage to survive after their spouse has an affair.  It can be hard enough to decide how you feel only today.  It’s very difficult to determine how you might feel in the future.  And yet, at some point that’s what many people […]

My Husband Had An Affair And He Says He’s Going To Divorce Me. I Think That He’s Just Bluffing

By: Katie Lersch: It’s not uncommon for the concept of divorce to be mentioned after the discovery of an affair. It is most often mentioned by the faithful spouse, but either spouse can bring it up or can seek it. Sometimes, when the cheating spouse brings up a divorce, the faithful spouse can wonder as […]

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