By: Katie Lersch: It’s very common for the faithful spouse to feel as if the cheating spouse is trying to manipulate them after the affair has been discovered. Common manipulations are trying to make the faithful spouse feel guilty, responsible, or even pity. Understandably, the faithful spouse is often reluctant to take any of this […]
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By: Katie Lersch: If your spouse has had an affair, I’d be willing to bet that at some point in this process, you’ve found yourself with the realization that in the future, you’d like to be able to “just let it go.” That’s because this process can make you feel very negative feelings that seem […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I believe that perhaps the most unfortunate thing about a marital affair is that the faithful spouse is often very hurt by something that he or she never even set into motion. If having an affair were a crime, it would be a crime for which the innocent party pays a very […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It’s very natural and normal to wonder about the sex between your spouse and the person with whom they cheated. After all, that is the crux of an affair, right? By definition, it’s an affair because your spouse had sex with someone else. So of course you wonder just what that sex […]
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