Cheating Husbands Who Want To Stay Married, But Won’t Stop Cheating

By: Katie Lersch: It’s often assumed that a husband who cheats on his wife ultimately does not want to be married anymore.  This is especially true if the husband cheats more than once.  People assume that a man who can be classified as a multiple or serial cheater is a man who, is his own […]

My Husband Keeps Repeatedly Apologizing For His Affair. But I Don’t Want His Apologies. I Want This Never To Have Happened

By: Katie Lersch:  When you first find out that your spouse has been cheating on you, an apology is expected – to say the least.  But after a while, you can begin to grow tired of all of these apologies.  It can start to feel like the same old thing over and over again.  And […]

Things Were Initially Relatively Great After The Affair, But Now We Are Fighting

By: Katie Lersch:  Although there is a perception that a marriage can completely fall apart immediately after an affair is discovered, this is not always the case.  Sometimes, the cheating spouse is so overcome with guilt, emotion and remorse, that the faithful spouse just can not help but feel a little empathy.  It can be […]

My Husband’s Mother And Children Say They Don’t Blame Him At All For Cheating On Me

By: Katie Lersch:  When you find out that your husband has been cheating on you, frankly, you can use all of the support that you can get.  I don’t always think it’s a great idea to tell a bunch of people about the affair, but it’s natural to want people to be outraged and angry […]

He Ended The Affair Once I Filed For Divorce. Now I Feel Like It’s Not Only Ironic, But It Might Be Too Late

By: Katie Lersch: When you find out that your husband has been cheating, your first agenda is usually to make sure that it is over. Most wives realize that before they can even give their marriage (or what is to become of it) any real thought, they have to know that the other woman is […]

My Family Is Upset That I’m Staying With The Husband Who Cheated.

By: Katie Lersch: Wives who are dealing with the aftermath of an affair have more than enough to deal with, including themselves, their husbands, and their household.  Unfortunately though, the truth has a way of crossing the threshold of your home. And eventually, other people can learn about the affair and have their own opinions […]

The Man I’m Cheating With Claims That He Doesn’t Have Sex With His Wife. How Do I Know If This Is True?

By: Katie Lersch:  People sometimes assume that a woman who is cheating with a married man will take what she can get.  What I mean by this is that there is a perception that she has low standards.  After all, she’s having a relationship with a man who is committed to another woman. Except that […]

My Husband’s Friend Made A Pass At Me. I Didn’t Tell. But The Friend Confessed. Now My Husband Thinks We Are Cheating Or Having An Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people whose spouse is sure that they are cheating when they are not. Sometimes, the spouse thinks that they have seen or “caught” something, when in fact, what they are seeing is a misunderstanding. However, it can be hard to explain this or to make your spouse believe […]

My Spouse Cheated And Is Unhappy That I Want To Move On

By: Katie Lersch: Many of the spouses who I hear from are not sure if they want to end their marriages after their spouse has cheated. Many are angry, confused, and hurt, and they realize that it is going to be hard to make a sound decision with so many feelings coming all at once. […]

Why Would Someone Who Cheats Think His Wife Still Belongs To Him?

By: Katie Lersch:  Many wives who contact me are extremely confused about their husband’s behavior either during or after his affair.  Many don’t understand how their husband can have any type of expectation for his wife when he’s thrown away that privilege by his betrayal.  One example of what I am talking about is a […]

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