I Want To Decide To End The Affair, But I’m Struggling. How Do I Make This Decision?

By: Katie Lersch:   Much of the time, the people who I hear from are those who are the faithful spouse.  They are not the ones who cheated in their marriage, but they are dealing with a spouse who has.  Sometimes though, I hear from a spouse who is cheating and who is looking for […]

I’m Not Sure How I Feel Toward My Husband After His Affair. Will This Become More Clear To Me?

By: Katie Lersch:  I hear from a good amount of conflicted women who are dealing with infidelity in their marriage.  Some of them have just found out about the cheating or the affair.  And others have known for what feels like way too long.  One thing that they have in common, though, are fluctuating feelings […]

I Feel Completely Justified In Over Spending And Buying Myself Expensive Gifts After My Husband’s Affair

By: Katie Lersch:  It’s perfectly natural to want to make a cheating spouse pay.  And the word “pay” can have all sorts of connotations.  It can mean that you want for him to pay financially.  It can mean that you want him to pay emotionally.  Some people are very obvious about this.  We’ve all known […]