My Spouse Cheated On Me And Ruined Our Family

By: Katie Lersch: At the time that people are carrying out an affair, few of them are thinking of the repercussions of their actions. They aren’t thinking of the fall out that is going to affect the family at home. If they were, it would be much more difficult for them to carry out the […]

My Husband’s Affair Made Him Stuck On Unrealistic Infatuation

By: Katie Lersch:  It’s normal to look at your spouse differently after you find out that they have cheated and had an affair.  You may even come to believe that they have changed dramatically (both in their personality and in their outlook.)  What you may not expect is that your spouse may actually acknowledge and […]

My Husband Never Initiates Sex Anymore After He Cheated

By: Katie Lersch: It’s common sense that your sex life might be affected or might take a definite hit after your spouse cheats or has an affair. However, one common misconception is that this is because the faithful spouse has basically shut down the sex, or that, because of their anger, they understandably have no […]

I Spoke To A Women Friend And She Told Me That My Wife Won’t Forgive My Infidelity For Years

By: Katie Lersch:  When you are first caught cheating by your spouse, you usually will completely understand their anger at you.  Even if your marriage wasn’t always great or if, deep down, you feel a tiny bit justified, you still know that cheating is very destructive and that your spouse has every reason to be […]

How Do I Reconnect With My Spouse After The Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from couples who, quite understandably, feel very distant from one another after infidelity has affected the marriage.  Sometimes, both people are interested in reconnecting.  Other times, one spouse is distant while the other wants to feel close again.  Whatever the reason, there is often a concern about the best […]

How Should You Feel Immediately After Your Husband Had An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives for whom the discovery of the affair is still fresh. They have just found out and many of them are somewhat surprised at their feelings and reactions. I find that this is really common. In many different situations in our lives, we THINK that we would know […]

How Can I Stop My Anger And Resentment After My Husband’s Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who don’t understand why they are still angry or resentful when so much time has passed since their husband has cheated or had an affair.  Often, they believe that they have done everything in their power to heal.  And that enough time has passed for things to […]

My Husband Cheated On Me And I Covered His Tracks. Does That Make Me Just As Guilty As Him?

By: Katie Lersch:  Some wives want the whole world to know that their husband had an affair.  Many of them have this wish because they want their husband to have to face up to what he did. They want for him to be embarrassed and to feel “outed.”  They don’t want for him to be […]

Can A Man Love His Wife More After His Affair?

I recently heard from a wife whose husband was proclaiming that he “loved her even more” in the months after his affair.  The wife thought he was just saying this to get back in her good graces again.  She didn’t believe this for a second.  She asked in part “is it possible for a husband to […]

I Had An Affair And Now My Spouse Wants Space And Time Away From Me. How Do I Reverse This?

By: Katie Lersch:  Often, when one spouse is having an affair, they try not to spend a lot of time thinking about what might happen if their spouse finds out about it.  Frankly, this is just not a pleasant thing to think about.  And most of the time, they never have plans to carry out […]

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