The Other Person In The Affair Seems Obsessed With My Relationship With My Spouse

By: Katie Lersch: Sometimes, when you begin an affair, you purposely try very hard not to think about your spouse. You do this because the guilt would be overwhelming if you did not. However, this can become difficult when the other person in the affair always wants information about your spouse and about your marriage. […]

Should I Email My Husband’s Mistress After Learning About The Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  Many wives at least have the fleeting idea to reach out to the other woman in the affair.  This is usually because they want information from her.  They want to know what happened and why.  They want to know what information the husband provided about the marriage and the wife.  They want […]

I Feel Like My Husband’s Infidelity And Affair Ruined My Life

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are struggling greatly after a husband’s cheating, infidelity, or affair.  I understand how devastating this can feel.  You can feel as if  your entire married life was a lie.  You can feel like the love and commitment was all one sided.  And you wonder how you […]

My Husband Lied About Me To The Other Woman In The Affair

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who have just learned some of the details about their husband’s affair. Understandably, they are hurt by both the act of him cheating and by the betrayal and the lies that he used to carry out the behavior.  Many wives are surprised and furious to learn that […]

Why Would A Husband Cheat And Tell His Wife Many Years Later? Like Decades Later?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are quite confused as to a confession that has just come from their spouse. He has confessed to cheating, but there’s a catch. The cheating hasn’t just occurred, even though the confession is fresh. There are some people who choose to confess to the cheating years, […]

What Are The Chances That My Husband Will Stay With Me After An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I think that most of us assume that if our spouse ever cheats on us, we will be out of the marriage before the door can close behind us.  Most of also assume that we would never cheat on our spouse. And yet, statistics prove to us that both of the above […]

After His Affair, We Still Have Sex Sometimes But He Never Hugs Me Or Shows Me Genuine Affection Anymore

By: Katie Lersch: One would assume that the biggest physical marital complaint after an affair is sex. And, to be sure, plenty of couples do have issues with sex after one of them has cheated. But, it might surprise you to know that I just as often hear from people who have resumed their sex […]

I Live In Fear Of Him Cheating Again Or Having Another Affair.

By: katie lersch: I often hear from wives who live in constant fear that they will have to deal with another round of cheating or yet another affair.  Many times, their husband has repeatedly assured them that they have nothing to worry about and that he’ll never cheat again.  But of course, that’s a hard […]

My Husband Will Not Leave His Job After His Affair

by: Katie Lersch: It’s no secret that a decent percentage of affairs happen at the work place or at a person’s job.  After all, most of us spend as much time at our desks or at our jobs than we do at home with our spouse.  And, in today’s economy under the pressure to perform […]

How Does A Man Feel After You Tell His Wife About An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  Occasionally, I will hear from people who want to know how a man might feel after he has been “outed” about an affair.  Sometimes, the person asking is a well-meaning friend or family member who just could not stand quietly by and not say anything.  Other times, “the other person” in the […]

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