It’s Bad Enough That He Lied During The Affair, But He Continues To Lie After It About Little Things

Many wives who are dealing with infidelity understandably want the complete truth about every single, tiny detail of their husband’s life and thoughts. It might seem like overkill to some, but when you’ve been betrayed and fooled by a spiderweb of lies, then it can get to a point where you’ll only tolerate 100% of […]

How Do Most Men Feel When They Run Into The Other Woman They Had An Affair With?

Many wives hope that their husband will never see the other woman in the affair again.  Some go so far as to move to ensure that this happens.  Unfortunately, making a physical move isn’t always feasible.  And inevitably, if you stay in the same town, the husband will be out somewhere and will run into […]

My Husband Says The Other Woman Is Trying To Blackmail Him

Wives who are dealing with infidelity want a couple of things, just for starters.  They want a remorseful spouse.  They want to know that the other person is out of the picture and that their spouse has ended the affair firmly and permanently.  Unfortunately, even when some husbands try to do this, the other person […]

Is It Common For The Mistress To Reach Out With Contact After The Affair

I sometimes hear from wives who are afraid that, now that the affair is over, the other woman is going to try to contact the wife or the husband. Of course, the wife usually hopes that the other woman will just gracefully go away. But unfortunately, this is not always the case. Many wives want […]

Does A Cheating Husband Miss The Affair Excitement?

I sometimes hear from faithful wives who are worried about their husband’s feelings after he has ended his affair.  Many worry that even though their husband seems to be committed to the marriage, he is going to miss the drama and the excitement that the affair brought about.  They worry that by comparison, their marriage […]

My Husband Still Doesn’t Seem Content With Life After His Affair

Many wives whose husband had an affair will tell you that, even if they didn’t suspect an affair, they might have noticed that their husband seemed ‘restless’ or ‘fidgety’ right before he cheated.  Many people cheat as a way to bring drama into the life which they think has become stale.  The great irony of […]

What Are The Long Term Effects Of An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: Sometimes, when your spouse is having an affair, it’s very difficult to think beyond tomorrow – much less well into the future. But once the shock wears off and the dust settles, many faithful spouses realize that this is exactly what they have to do. Because, in order to make a sound […]

I Am So Jealous All Of The Time After My Spouse’s Affair

I often hear from wives who feel very insecure and jealous after their husband’s affair. This jealousy is not always limited to just the other woman in the affair. Much to her surprise, the wife can find herself jealous of numerous people, even if she is not jealous or envious by nature. This may be […]

My Husband Blames His Infidelity On PTSD

It’s not uncommon for a husband caught in infidelity to try to come up with a reason or an excuse for his actions. Some excuses are frankly laughable. Others are painful. Some leave the wife wondering if they are valid and worth further exploration. One example of this is PTSD. Many husbands who have affairs […]