Does A Cheating Husband Miss The Affair Excitement?

I sometimes hear from faithful wives who are worried about their husband’s feelings after he has ended his affair.  Many worry that even though their husband seems to be committed to the marriage, he is going to miss the drama and the excitement that the affair brought about.  They worry that by comparison, their marriage […]

Why Do Their Husbands Want Their Family Back After An Affair When They Don’t Deserve It?

By: Katie Lersch: It’s not uncommon for me to hear from wives and from mistresses who just don’t get why a man who was actively involved in an affair (for which he was willing to risk everything) will suddenly dramatically change his behavior and decide that he now wants his family back. A common comment […]

My Husband Still Doesn’t Seem Content With Life After His Affair

Many wives whose husband had an affair will tell you that, even if they didn’t suspect an affair, they might have noticed that their husband seemed ‘restless’ or ‘fidgety’ right before he cheated.  Many people cheat as a way to bring drama into the life which they think has become stale.  The great irony of […]

How Do I Love My Husband Again After He Cheated And Had An Affair?

by: katie lersch: I often hear from wives who are having a hard time believing that they are ever going to feel the same way about their husband and their marriages again. Even though that many of these wives really do want to save their marriages, some doubt that this is going to be possible […]

When Does The Remorse Begin After An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are extremely frustrated because they are not seeing a lot of remorse in the days following the discovery of an affair.  They often expect for their husbands to immediately express remorse, but this doesn’t always happen.  And this lack of immediate remorse can leave them wondering […]

What Are The Long Term Effects Of An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: Sometimes, when your spouse is having an affair, it’s very difficult to think beyond tomorrow – much less well into the future. But once the shock wears off and the dust settles, many faithful spouses realize that this is exactly what they have to do. Because, in order to make a sound […]

I Am So Jealous All Of The Time After My Spouse’s Affair

I often hear from wives who feel very insecure and jealous after their husband’s affair. This jealousy is not always limited to just the other woman in the affair. Much to her surprise, the wife can find herself jealous of numerous people, even if she is not jealous or envious by nature. This may be […]

A Letter To The Husband Who Cheated And Had An Affair: What Should It Say?

by: katie lersch: I often hear from women who are struggling to work through their husband’s cheating or affair.  Many ask me about writing a letter to put their struggles into words.  Some have even asked me for a sample letter or requested for me to write one for them.  I honestly think it’s advisable […]

My Husband Blames His Infidelity On PTSD

It’s not uncommon for a husband caught in infidelity to try to come up with a reason or an excuse for his actions. Some excuses are frankly laughable. Others are painful. Some leave the wife wondering if they are valid and worth further exploration. One example of this is PTSD. Many husbands who have affairs […]

My Husband Chose Me Over The Other Woman. So Why Don’t I Feel Like I’ve Won?

by: katie lersch:  I often hear from wives whose main goal for the short term is getting their husband away from the woman that he is cheating or having an affair with. Many give their husband’s ultimatums and flat out tell him that he has to make a choice between his wife and the other […]

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