How to Let a Woman Know That You Know She Had an Affair With Your Husband

by: Katie Lersch: It’s understandable that you would want to confront the woman that your husband cheated with. You likely want her to know that this deception is over and that you know everything. She needs to know that she will no longer have free reign with your husband. You likely also need to put […]

How to Save Your Marriage After an Affair – 4 Ways to Start Over

by: Katie Lersch: People often ask me if it’s possible “to start over” after one of the spouses in a marriage has had an affair. Understandably, usually one or both of the spouses doubt that things will ever “be the same” or “right” again. They suspect that this betrayal has forever altered (or ruined) the […]

Marriage and Infidelity – Should We Even Stay Married?

By: Katie Lersh: I sometimes speak with spouses who are just about ready to give up on their marriage as a result of infidelity. Many people just can not believe that this is something that they, and their marriage, are ever going to be able to recover from. Every minute of every day, they feel […]

What Happens To A Marriage When A Husband Cheats Or Has An Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I once spoke with a wife who had found out that very same day that her husband had cheated on her and had an affair. He had confessed this himself and then immediately told her that it was his wish to salvage the marriage. Needless to say, the wife hadn’t had any […]

Coping With His Affair – Tips That May Offer Some Hope

by: Katie Lersch: I sometimes speak with wives who are greatly struggling with learning that their husband has had or is having an affair. They are often shocked, deeply hurt, and feeling quite betrayed. Often, even if they have seen friends and acquaintances going through this, they never thought that this would happen to them […]

What to Do After He Cheats – Tips and Advice That May Help

by: Katie Lersch: I sometimes speak with wives and girlfriends who have found out that their husband or boyfriend has been cheating and are not at all sure how to handle it or how to proceed. Some common comments are things like: “I can’t envision our relationship ever being the same again. This hurts so […]

How Do Most Men Feel About The Woman They Had An Affair With After The Affair Is Over?

by: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who spend a great deal of time worrying about the woman that their husband had an affair with.  It’s not at all uncommon to develop a sort of unhealthy obsession with her.  And, while we’re developing this preoccupation with her, we often assume that our husbands are […]

How And Why Do Affairs Usually End?

by: katie lersch: I often have two different sets of people asking me this question.  Sometimes, people whose spouses are having an affair want to know why and how affairs end so that they can attempt to make the affair end sooner.  Other times, I hear from the people involved in the affair.  They don’t […]

I Want My Husband to Write Me a Letter After His Affair

by: Katie Lersch: I recently spoke with a wife who was struggling with her husband’s recent affair. He claimed that this was the first time he had ever cheated, and it would be his last. He promised that he would do whatever was necessary to restore his wife’s trust one day and vowed to prove […]

I Want To Save Our Marriage After His Affair But He Doesn’t Know Who Or What He Wants

by: Katie Lersch: I recently heard from a wife who felt like her marriage and her life was falling apart. A few weeks ago, her husband had come home and confessed that he had been having an affair with a coworker. He insisted that he was sorry and did not want to lose his family. […]