My Husband Says Cheating And Having An Affair Wasn’t All About Sex. How Can He Say This?

By: Katie Lersch:  Many people assume that an affair is all about sex.  I would even venture to say that most people think that cheating men must not have a great sex life at home so they are having to go elsewhere.   Sadly, many wives whose husbands are unfaithful believe this also. A wife might […]

My Husband Wants To Have An Open Marriage After He Had An Affair. What Now?

By: Katie Lersch: Occasionally, husbands want to redefine the terms of their marriage after an affair.  Many will suggest concessions or changes as an alternative to them leaving the marriage.  One such example is husbands trying to convince their wife to have an “open” or “unconventional” marriage instead of breaking up or ending the marriage. A […]

What Do I Do Now That My Husband Has Finally Admitted To An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives think that if they can just get their husband to finally admit to the affair, they can finally start the healing process, or at least can begin moving on.  But often, once they finally get that admission, they aren’t sure what they should do next. A wife might explain: “for […]

Should I Stop Having Sex With My Husband After His Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: Many women have no desire to resume sexual relationships with a husband after he has had an affair.  Some are acting out of anger and others want to teach their husband a lesson.  Withholding sex can be a very deliberate decision made as a way to punish the husband for his actions. […]

I Have Trouble Believing That My Husband Really Loves Me After He Had An Affair: Tips That Might Help

By: Katie Lersch: This may surprise you, but often one main concern after learning of a husband’s affair is not the wife’s own feelings but that of her husband.  If you were to ask very honest wives about their most immediate concern during the early days after the affair has been found out, many will […]

Is There Ever Justification To Cheat On Your Spouse?

By: Katie Lersch:  Some people feel very justified in their cheating.  And the spouses of those people want to know if those justification arguments are valid.  The truth is, it is very common for people to feel as if there were circumstances that almost excused or justified their cheating.  Common circumstances that I’ll hear are […]

My Husband Had An Affair And I’m Not That Angry. What Does That Mean?

By: Katie Lersch: Some wives are very surprised at their husband’s reaction after he has been caught having an affair. Many had assumed that if they ever found out that their husband was cheating, that they were going to absolutely furious. When or if this doesn’t happen, they can be quite confused as to why […]

Should I Just Ignore My Husband’s Infidelity?

Some wives want to explore various ways to confront their husband about his infidelity and in order to heal so that they can save their marriage. Occasionally though, some wonder if it’s wise to just ignore the infidelity in the hopes that it will eventually go away. One of these curious wives might say: “I […]

My Husband Cheated And Is Pushing To Come Home “To Fix It”

Wives whose husbands are begging to come home after infidelity can feel conflicted. Typically, the wife has learned that the husband cheated or had an affair and promptly kicked him out of the house. Many of these husbands don’t like this arrangement and begin calling or coming by in the hopes of convincing the wife […]