By: Katie Lersch: Many wives describe themselves as “naive” or “stupid” after they realize that their husband has been cheating or having an affair. They often become angry with themselves for not seeing it coming or for not being more suspicious. They often blame themselves just as much as they blame their husbands. One might […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many people are suffering from a double blow. Not only have they found out that their spouse has been cheating or having an affair, but they are also dealing with the fact that their cheating spouse is pushing for a separation. One of them could explain: “I found out about three weeks […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many people assume that if a couple has sexual problems after one of them has cheated and had an affair, it is because the faithful spouse just doesn’t want to be intimate with someone who has been unfaithful. Sometimes, surprisingly, it is the exact opposite. The scenario in which the cheating spouse […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many people are dealing with more than just their spouse’s cheating or affair. They are dealing with their spouse’s anger over the fact that they didn’t keep the dirty little secret all to themselves. Often, when the faithful spouse shares the infidelity with his or her family, the cheating spouse can feel […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many people are consumed with guilt and shame because of the extra marital affair for which they never planned. Often, they never intended to cheat on their spouse. Many used to harshly judge friends or colleagues when they cheated because they always thought that this was something that they themselves would never […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear about somewhat strange situations that involve infidelity. Occasionally, I hear of a situation in which the “other woman” is actually living with the husband and his wife. As you might expect, the wife often wants to end this situation as soon as is possible. One of these wives might […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many faithful wives feel that they are hearing complaints or even scolding for something that is almost their right – continuously talking about their husband’s past affair or indiscretions. Wives often feel as if they have a right to continue to ask questions or to continue to bring up the affair when […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many people are terrified that their spouse is going to cheat on them. Worse, they know somewhere deep in their heart that their spouse might have this right because the cheating would be in retaliation. In this situation, one spouse has cheated so the other feels the need to also cheat either […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives feel as if they are being pressured into counseling after their husband has cheated or had an affair. They are often still reeling and they don’t want to be forced into a quick decision or commitment. One might comment: “when I found out about my husband’s affair, I told him […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives are wondering when they are going to feel loving toward their husband again after he has cheated or had an affair. Many can’t help but see him differently after the infidelity. And some can’t imagine ever feeling the same way towards him again. One might say in a discussion: “I […]
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