How Long Does It Take For Other Other Woman To Show Her True, Gold Digging Self?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who have been waiting for the “other woman” to show her true colors and therefore become less attractive to the husband. The wife often hopes this process isn’t going to take very long, since it’s hard to be patient when you feel your marriage slipping away. But […]

My Husband Cheats And Begs Me Not To Leave Him. And Then He Cheats On Me Again

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are beyond fed up with their husband’s reoccurring cheating. In the beginning, they wanted to believe in him and to give him the benefit of the doubt, but that is no longer possible because he’s cheated again and again. The wife usually shamefully admits that she […]

My Husband Is More Concerned About Hurting The Other Woman In The Affair Than He Is About Hurting Me

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are very upset by the way that their husband seems to be protecting the other woman in the affair. Even though the wife is insisting that he break off the affair and have nothing whatsoever to do with the other woman, the husband is resisting this, […]

I Tried To Give Up My Affair. But I Can’t

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks who seem to be sincere when they claim that they still love their spouse and that they want to save their marriage, even when they have cheated on them. It’s my inclination to want to help anyone in this situation, especially if this involves a family with […]

How Long Will It Take Me To Forgive My Husband For His Affair? Is There Anything That I Can Do To Hurry It Along?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are still very raw after their husband’s affair. They want for things to feel better as soon as is possible. And I’m sure that every one can understand this. This is a pain unlike any that many folks have ever felt. It hurts to your core. […]

My Spouse Says That The Affair Is Now Over. But He Is Still Leaving Me. Why?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear wives who are confused as to why their husband is still leaving. Because the reason that he’s been giving for leaving is because he wants to be with the woman with whom he was having an affair. But, after he announces that the affair is over, the wife might […]

If There Hope For A Marriage Where There Was An Affair With Love?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are extremely worried that their marriage is over. And it’s not because the marriage was marred by an affair. It is because their spouse is adamant that he loves (or loved if you’re talking about in the past tense) the other person with whom he cheated […]

Why Does My Spouse Stay With Me If He Is Cheating?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who know that their husband is cheating, but who have not confronted him yet. And one reason for this is that they are quite confused. Sometimes, they are just waiting for him to leave them because they just can not understand why he would stay with them […]

I Can’t Get Close To My Husband After His Affair. I Always Feel The Need To Keep Him At A Distance

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who really would like to stabilize their marriage after their spouse has cheated or had an affair. They would like to reestablish the love, the trust, and the closeness or intimacy. But something holds them back. And this can make a situation that is already awkward even […]

Explaining Your Infidelity: How Can You Ever Make Your Spouse Understand The Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are very frustrated because they are having a huge problem communicating with their spouse after their infidelity is found out. Much of the time, they are trying really hard to communicate honestly, but their spouse’s anger keeps them from making much headway. The faithful spouse often […]