Why Does He Cheat And Stay With His Wife?

I sometimes hear from women who have unfortunately been having an affair with a married man.  Many of them have attempted to entice him to leave his wife (or at least to give them some reassurances that there is a future ahead.)  The husband may be telling this other woman that he cares for her.  […]

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I Live In Fear Of Him Cheating Again Or Having Another Affair.

By: katie lersch: I often hear from wives who live in constant fear that they will have to deal with another round of cheating or yet another affair.  Many times, their husband has repeatedly assured them that they have nothing to worry about and that he’ll never cheat again.  But of course, that’s a hard […]

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My Husband Apparently Can’t Have Sex With Me After He Cheated

I sometimes hear from wives who are devastated not only by their husband’s cheating or affair, but also by the loss of intimacy and physical contact.  For whatever reason, sex has been taken off the table.  So at a time when a wife is already hurt and confused, she’s now struggling with the fact that […]

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How Do I Show Him I Love Him After His Infidelity?

If you’ve not ever dealt with infidelity, you might not understand how you can still love your spouse but be gravely disappointed in his cheating.  I did not understand this until my own husband had an affair.  Before this discovery, I thought that if he ever cheated on me, we would be done.  And right […]

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My Husband Is Obviously Feeling Guilty After His Affair And I Don’t Know How To React To It

By: Katie Lersch: Many faithful spouses in an affair will freely admit that they’d like to see their cheating spouse expressing guilt and remorse.  There are many reasons for this.  First, they want for their spouse to feel many of the negative and hurtful emotions that they’re now feeling because of his affair.  They also […]

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When Your Spouse Won’t Forgive Your Infidelity

By: Katie Lersch:   I often hear from the spouse who was cheated on.  Occasionally though, I sometimes get messages from the spouse who cheated.  Perhaps my perspective is skewed because I was one of the spouse’s who was cheated on, but it’s usually pretty obvious which people are sincere and which aren’t.  Some ask for […]

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Can An Affair Stay Secret Forever?

By: Katie Lersch: There are two very different subsets of people who want to know about the secrecy surrounding affairs.  I hear from people who suspect their spouse of cheating but who can’t elicit a confession or obtain proof.  So they wonder if they are ever going to learn the truth. I also hear from […]

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Does The Other Woman Feel Triumphant To Know That She Turned The Head Of A Married Man

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives would love to know what the other woman is thinking once the affair is over. Many assume that the other woman was smug about taking a man from his family and felt indifferent to the idea that she was potentially breaking up a family. Many wives envision women who set […]

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How Do I Break Off The Affair With Someone Who I Actually Love?

I sometimes hear from people who know that their affair is wrong on multiple levels. Because of this, they know that the affair must end. They know that ending it is the right solution for everyone involved. And yet, they also know that there is going to be pain involved because they truly believe that […]

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I Regret Cutting My Spouse Out Of My Life After His Affair, But I Don’t Know How To Let Him Back In

Understandably, many wives dealing with the overwhelming reality of an affair want their husbands out of their sight immediately. They don’t want to look at him. They don’t want to hear his excuses. They just don’t want him anywhere near their personal space, so they ask him to leave. In the days after this, many […]

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