Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

I sometimes hear from wives who are quite positive that their husband has cheated.  Both their intuition and their heart is telling them this.  And they want to proceed as though he has cheated so that they begin the process of picking up the pieces of their lives and of their marriage.  They moved past […]

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By Katie Lersch: I often have women tell me that they can’t help but notice some very troublesome personality changes in their husband after he cheated or had an affair.  Sometimes, the wife isn’t the only one who is noticing these changes.  Often, the children involved or other family members can’t help but notice as […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are beyond confused about their husband’s behavior after he cheated or having an affair. Many husbands insist that they want to make their marriage work. They say this with their words. And yet, sometimes their actions and their flip comments tell somewhat of a different story […]

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I often hear from people who are trying to come to terms with their spouse’s affair. One of the most common questions that we all have is: why? It is an understandable question. But when you really stop to think about it, you come to realize that it is so unlikely to get an answer […]

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I sometimes hear from wives who have done their research and know that, statistically speaking, most affairs come to an end relatively quickly.  They try to keep this in mind when their husband is dragging his feet about ending the affair or insisting that he needs “more time” to make up his mind.  However, quite […]

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Understandably, wives who are dealing with infidelity want their husbands to feel just as alarmed and hurt by this situation as they are. They want him to feel the depth and gravity of what he has done. They want him to be every bit as upset about this as everyone else – perhaps even more […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  When you’re an outsider looking in, it’s hard to understand how a wife can blame herself when her husband cheats or has an affair.  Before this happens to you, you probably think it’s very clear cut that if a husband cheats or has an affair, then he (and the other woman) are […]

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I sometimes hear from wives who somewhat regret their harsh reaction to their husband’s affair.  Understandably, the wife had a strong reaction.  But she still feels that she has said and done some things that she now regrets.  Many fear that they have damaged their marriage with what they now see as an overreaction, and […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who don’t understand why they are still angry or resentful when so much time has passed since their husband has cheated or had an affair.  Often, they believe that they have done everything in their power to heal.  And that enough time has passed for things to […]

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