Is It Possible To Overanalyze An Affair?

It’s natural to have countless questions after you learn that your spouse has had an affair. Why did he do this? How did he hide it from you? Is he remorseful? Will he do it again? Does he have a character flaw that means he can’t be faithful? Was this your fault? What can you […]

Help! I Have To See The Woman My Husband Had An Affair With. We Are Both Attending The Same Event.

For wives who don’t intimately know the woman with whom your husband had an affair, her image lives only in your mind. If you’ve never actually seen her, even better. You are free to picture her as homely, annoying, or lacking in some other way. Or, you may fear the worst. You may assume that […]

Can A Husband’s Affair Cause PTSD?

There’s no question that a wife can feel extremely traumatized after she learns that her husband has cheated or had an affair. It is not unusual to feel as if you are sleepwalking through life (or worse) for quite some time. Some wives worry that the affair will negatively impact their mental health permanently because […]

What Questions Should I Ask The Woman My Husband Cheated And Had An Affair With?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are gearing up to meet with or question the woman that their husband cheated with.  They often want to know how they should act or what they should ask her.  They often will rehearse for, plan out, and play out this meeting in their mind long […]

Am I Naive In Thinking I Can Recover From Infidelity?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives who are reeling from infidelity begin to believe that this is a nightmare from which you can never awaken. Once you accept the fact that your spouse has lied to and cheated on you, how can you ever come back from that? Once you have seen such a reality, there […]