Understandably, many wives lash out when they find out that their husband has an affair. They are angry. They are afraid. And they feel as if they are at the mercy of their circumstances. So, to regain a sense of control, they make ultimatums. You can’t blame them for immediately proclaiming that their husband must […]
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by: katie lersch: I often hear from wives who are struggling to make their husbands understand just how devastating and far reaching his affair truly was. Many wives struggle with making their husband understand that moving on or getting over the affair is going to take far longer (and much more work) than the husband […]
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Wives whose cheating husbands are non-committal or wishy-washy face additional challenges on top of the affair. Not only are these wives dealing with the aftermath of the cheating, but many of them also must deal with an uncertain future, since their husband doesn’t want to move out, but also won’t fully commit to saving the […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Sex after an affair is one of the most common topics that is brought up by people who read my blog. There can be a lot of awkwardness, confusion, and questions about resuming your sex life after one spouse has been unfaithful. And, there’s a lot at stake here because when […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It’s very common for me to hear from wives who are struggling to explain to their husbands just how much his cheating or affair hurt them and caused them pain. But often, their husband doesn’t react in the way that they were hoping for and they are looking for a way to […]
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I think it is fair to say that sometimes, both spouses crave normalcy after one of them has been caught cheating or having an affair. However, the definition of “normal” can vary between the spouses. Often, the faithful spouse sees normalcy as the ability to trust and feel safe again. And the cheating spouse craves […]
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by: Katie Lersch: Many women who are dealing with a husband’s affair will tell you that the lying is one of the biggest issues to overcome. Processing the lies that he told you while the affair was going on can be extremely difficult. But dealing with his continued lies when the affair is out in […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are struggling to restore their confidence or self esteem after their spouse has cheated or had an affair. Often, they will tell me that they are a completely different person after the affair. And many intuitively know that in order for their marriage to survive, they […]
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