I Have Trouble Believing My Husband Truly Wants to Stay with Me After He Cheated and Had an Affair

By: Katie Lersch: When you first find out that your husband has cheated and had an affair, it can feel as if life as you know it is over because nothing can ever be the same again. Many wives in this situation assume that in a couple of months, they’ll be divorced and alone. That’s […]

My Husband Cheated on Me, But Now He Wants to Move Back In So We Can “Move on With Our Lives.” I’m Not Sure That I’m Ready

By: Katie Lersch: Because of my own experience with infidelity, cheating is a topic that I have researched and thought about for a long while. And I find that almost universally, the cheating spouse wants to shorten the healing process while the faithful spouse wants to lengthen it. In other words, the cheating spouse is […]

The Fallout from My Husband’s Affair Makes Me Feel Constantly Anxious, Unwell, and Nearly Ill

By: Katie Lersch: If you’ve never dealt with a spouse’s infidelity, you might assume that you’ll deal with a week or two of massive shock and sadness until you eventually level out in a relatively short period of time. Even if you’re still struggling, you might think, you’ll still need to start to move on […]

Why Do Married Men Cheat? What May Well Be the Real Reason

By: Katie Lersch: Because of my past history with infidelity and the upkeep of this blog, I can’t tell you how often I think and talk about why men actually cheat on their wives. And I believe that I have an accurate answer, but it may surprise some people.  See, most folks assume that when a […]