How to Handle Comments When Taking Back a Cheating Husband

I sometimes hear from wives who have decided to take back their cheating husbands. And let me tell you, that decision is never easy. The reasons vary. Sometimes it’s because they truly believe the marriage can heal and be better than before. Other times it’s because of the kids, or because they still love him […]

My Husband Only Came Back After His Affair Because The Other Woman Went Back To Her Husband

By: Katie Lersch: I hear from a lot of wives who find themselves in this exact situation. Their husband comes back after the affair, but instead of feeling relieved or hopeful, they feel second best. They wonder if the only reason their husband returned is because the other woman ended things—or because he simply had […]

What Should I Say To My Husband’s Mistress? Should I Meet With Her?

By: Katie Lersch: I get this question more often than you’d think. Many wives wonder if they should talk to (or even meet with) their husband’s mistress. They want to know what to say, how to say it, and whether it will make a difference. Recently, I heard from a wife who said, “My husband […]

I Constantly Compare Myself To Other Women After My Husband’s Affair

by: katie lersch: I often hear from wives who are having serious self esteem issues after their husband has an affair. Many no longer feel attractive, sexy, or self assured. Many admit that they constantly compare themselves to other women. Sometimes, this means comparing yourself to “the other woman”  (meaning that you are comparing yourself […]

When Your Husband Cheats – Tips On Coping, Healing, And Moving On In A Healthy Way

By: Katie Lersch: Most of the women who write to me are dealing with one of the most painful experiences of their lives: their husband has cheated. Many say they’ve never felt anything so devastating, and I understand that because I’ve been there. When infidelity happens, so much changes. Your trust in him is shaken. […]