Why Do Women Forgive the Men Who Cheat on Them?

By: Katie Lersch: I’ll be the first to admit it. Before an affair happened to me, I never thought I’d be one of “those” wives who stayed. I used to think that if my husband ever cheated, that would be it. No discussion. No second chances. But the truth is, you never really know what […]

My Husband Is Tired Of Apologizing For The Affair

I sometimes hear from wives who tell me something like this: “My husband says he’s tired of apologizing for the affair. He says he’s said he’s sorry a thousand times, and yet I still bring it up. Now he says he doesn’t want to spend the rest of his life paying for it.” Or, “He’s […]

How Can He Say He Still Loves Me When He Cheated?

by: katie lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are completely baffled — and honestly, outraged — when their husbands swear they still love them after having an affair. I get comments like: “He swears up and down that he still loves me and that he never stopped loving me. How can that even be […]

Should I Forgive My Husband For Having an Affair?

by: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are trying to answer one of the hardest questions of their lives: Should I forgive my husband for having an affair? Many tell me things like: “I don’t know if I can or should forgive him. While I was home taking care of our kids, he […]

Do Men Love Their Mistresses?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are tormented by this question. It’s one thing to know that your husband had a physical relationship with another woman. But many wives will tell me that what really keeps them up at night is the possibility that he was emotionally involved. I often hear comments […]