by: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who spend a great deal of time worrying about the woman that their husband had an affair with. It’s not at all uncommon to develop a sort of unhealthy obsession with her. And, while we’re developing this preoccupation with her, we often assume that our husbands are […]
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by: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who want to know whether a marriage can truly recover after adultery. Sometimes the email comes from the spouse who cheated and is desperate to make things right. Other times, it comes from the faithful spouse who is heartbroken but unwilling to let one painful chapter define […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Sex after an affair is one of the most common topics that is brought up by people who read my blog. There can be a lot of awkwardness, confusion, and questions about resuming your sex life after one spouse has been unfaithful. And, there’s a lot at stake here because when […]
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by: Katie Lersch: I once heard from a wife who desperately wanted to save her marriage after her husband had been briefly unfaithful. That does not mean she wasn’t devastated. She was. She was hurt, angry, shaken, and grieving the sense of safety she once had. At the same time, she felt deeply conflicted. Saving […]
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by: Katie Lersch: I once heard from a wife who had a brief affair during one of the most fragile moments of her life. Her mother was dying of cancer. Her husband was traveling for work. She felt lonely and overwhelmed, and what she described as a “fling” happened before she even understood what she […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are trying to find their footing again after their husbands cheated. But every so often, I also hear from the other woman. These women usually want my take on the man’s behavior and what it means. They’ll say things like: “He was happier with me. He […]
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by: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from women whose husbands have had long-term affairs. These wives will almost always tell me the same thing: “I wish it had just been a one-night stand. At least then it wouldn’t have involved feelings.” Many wives draw a very sharp line between physical cheating and emotional cheating. In […]
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by: katie lersch: I often have two different sets of people asking me this question. Sometimes, people whose spouses are having an affair want to know why and how affairs end so that they can attempt to make the affair end sooner. Other times, I hear from the people involved in the affair. They don’t […]
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by: Katie Lersch: I sometimes receive emails from both wives and husbands who are absolutely stuck on this issue. It’s one of the most painful sticking points after infidelity, and it shows up in my inbox so often that I can almost anticipate the questions before I even open the message. A wife will write […]
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