Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch: Believe it or not, very few of the wives that I hear from want to give up on their marriages. Most of them are very hurt, confused, and injured over their husband’s affair, but they still want to find a way to save their marriage. Many of them tell me that although […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives or girlfriends who are struggling to process the cheating of the man that they loved. Many have no idea where they want to go from here. Believe it or not, most will freely admit that they still love him and wish that they could save the relationship, […]

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By: Katie Lersch: If you are dealing with a spouse who cheated on you, I don’t need to tell you that infidelity can be one of the most devastating experiences you will ever feel in your life – you already know. You wake up in the morning feeling pain, anger, and confusion – and you […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I recently heard from a wife who told me that she was afraid that her marriage (and her life) was never going to recover after her husband’s affair. She said, in part: “It’s been six months now, and in some ways, I feel as though things are even worse than the day […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Sometimes, I hear from a spouse who is fully aware that their spouse is cheating and having an affair. They feel that they have sufficient proof to know the whole truth. In their hearts, they know that he is cheating and they are more than ready to deal with that. At this […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who feel as if they will never be truly free from an affair that is in the past.  Often, they have tried everything that they know to do to make sure that their spouse can heal and move on.  But it doesn’t happen, even many years later. I […]

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By: Katie Lersch:   I often hear from the spouse who was cheated on.  Occasionally though, I sometimes get messages from the spouse who cheated.  Perhaps my perspective is skewed because I was one of the spouse’s who was cheated on, but it’s usually pretty obvious which people are sincere and which aren’t.  Some ask for […]

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One of the common concerns that I hear from wives whose husbands have had an affair is whether he will end up having a long term relationship with (or even end up marrying) the woman with whom he was cheating. Often, the husband seems to be quite infatuated with the other woman and the wife […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are so hurt because their husband thinks that he is in love with the other woman or the mistress. And the wife sometimes has to begrudgingly admit that she can’t help but notice a change in her husband. He seems more carefree or optimistic. His outlook […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I recently heard from a wife who was struggling to move past her husband’s affair. He’d had an affair with a neighbor which had ended about eight months ago. Although the wife was very clear on the fact that she wanted to save her marriage for the benefit of her family, she […]

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