By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who have serious doubts that their marriage stands a chance after their husband had an affair. Sometimes, the husband disagrees and thinks that the marriage can be saved. And he’s willing to do just about anything to prove to the wife that he’s right, including going to […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives whose husbands are still actively having an affair. And they are trying to determine what type of situation they might be facing. For whatever reason, the husband is reluctant to break off the affair or to let the woman go. So, the wife wants to know for […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are trying to decipher their spouse’s comments and feelings after he has cheated or had an affair. Sometimes, it almost seems as if he is talking in riddles. Common comments that cause for confusion and doubt are things like “I feel empty and lost and I […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people whose cheating spouse has tried to make a distinction about their infidelity. They are insisting that their infidelity consisted of “only a fling” and was not a full blown affair. Many are very adamant and careful about making this distinction because they believe that it truly makes […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are trying to educate themselves about the challenges that they, and their marriage, might be facing after their spouse cheats or has an affair. Many are at least somewhat open to the idea of saving their marriage. But, they have concerns as to how feasible this […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who really want to see obvious, true, and strong remorse for their spouse’s affair. Because they fear that, without this remorse, their spouse is likely to either keep cheating, cheat again, or not be willing to work hard enough to save the marriage and to restore the […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks who know that it is time to end their affair, but they aren’t sure how to go about it. They know that this is going to cause pain, but they also know that it must be done. However, they aren’t sure how to do it in the […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from couples who are trying to determine the easiest and most effective way to work things out after one of them has had an affair. One concern that they will often have if is one of them should leave the house and move out for a bit or whether […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks whose spouse is attempting to make a very big distinction about his affair by claiming that sexual intercourse never took place. The spouse isn’t denying that there was inappropriate contact and emotional infidelity, but he is insisting that the relationship was never consummated and that this should […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are just starting to consider the idea of staying with the husband who was unfaithful. And many of them are struggling with this idea because they can’t imagine how any woman with an ounce of self esteem or self respect would stay with a man who […]
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