By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are very frustrated because they are having a huge problem communicating with their spouse after their infidelity is found out. Much of the time, they are trying really hard to communicate honestly, but their spouse’s anger keeps them from making much headway. The faithful spouse often […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people whose cheating spouse truly wants to “even the score.” What I mean by that is that the cheating spouse has become tired of being the bad guy in the relationship. They are tired of their spouse bringing up how much they have been hurt. They are tired […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are absolutely floored that their husband is still exhibiting what they believe is inappropriate behavior – even after he has been caught cheating or having an affair. Sometimes, he will casually touch other women. Or look or stare at them. Or attempt to communicate with them. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who, somewhere deep in their hearts, want to stay with their cheating husbands. Sometimes, they have children and they feel that keeping the family together is going to mean a better outcome for those same children when they become adults. Or, perhaps they still love their husband […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are keeping their husband at arm’s length because he has cheated or had an affair. Some husbands don’t accept this type of distance however. They will beg their wives to take them back. To that end, a husband will often act in such a way to […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who just can not understand how their husband could carry out the process of cheating and having an affair. Sure, she understands the physical process of it. But, she can not understand the mental or emotional process of it. After all, she believes that her spouse is […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from folks who want to know how to mend fences after their affair. So, I might hear a comment like: “I had an affair nine months ago. I lied to my husband and my children. I would pretend to work late when I was really spending time with the other […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks who thought long and hard before they finally told the truth about their affair. This is a decision that they didn’t take lightly. Often, they went back and forth. They debated internally. They even approached trusted friends and asked for advice. And, in the end, they decide […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who believe that their husband is in love with the other woman with whom he had an affair. So, the wife thinks that the husband would be happy if he could be with the other woman full time. The wife often believes that if she were to […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who aren’t quite sure how to react to their spouse’s need for “space” after one of them has cheated or had an affair. And, this space can be requested by either spouse. Sometimes, it is the cheating spouse who wants or needs space because he isn’t sure […]
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