By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are hearing conflicting stories from their husband when it comes to his feelings about the other woman in the affair. Sometimes, when the affair is first discovered, the husband will express real feelings for the other woman. Often, he thinks that having legitimate feelings will make […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from cheating spouses who want to make things right in their marriage. And a big obstacle to making this happen is that their spouse has lost respect for them. Their spouse may have viewed them in one way before the discovery of the affair, but they view them in […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Often, the most painful thing in dealing with an affair is also dealing with the other woman. This is especially true if the husband seems reluctant to give her up or to stay away from her. When this is the case, the wife will often try to determine ways that she can […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who desperately want the other woman out of their lives. The affair is supposedly over. The husband supposedly wants to save his marriage and to move on. So, when he maintains friendly contact with the other woman, the wife can be left with a very difficult situation. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are so frustrated that their husband will not address the topic of the other woman in the affair. Often, the wife wants all of the details about her and about what it was that brought the two of them together. The husband, however, will often resist […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are still waiting for the day when their lives (and their marriages) will feel “normal” or “right” again after their spouse’s affair. Often, they feel as if they are patiently waiting for a day that might never come because, despite their best efforts, they just aren’t […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who feel fairly certain that their spouse’s depression played a huge role in his or her cheating. Very often, treating (or at least effectively addressing) the depression is a big part of recovery. So when the depression returns, there are real concerns that the cheating is also […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are very unhappy in their marriage but who stay in the same because of their children. Many times, they are children of divorce who has vowed that they will never put their own children through the same single parent childhood that they themselves had. As a […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are confused and frustrated that their husband seems to be concerned about what the other woman thinks of him – even after the affair is supposedly over. This concern makes the wife wonder why he even cares and if this is yet one other thing that […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks who really do want to save their marriages but who are also struggling with moving on from the affair. Often, they really do love their spouse and they want to stay with their spouse. But, they can not deny that they are experiencing some residual feelings for […]
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